If you can't take the time to read what I have written for you then you don't have the time for me and your not the soul mate that I seek. If I catch you in a lie, were done. You ask me for money, were done. Have a nice day. My name is Tom, single, live alone, 64, retired, I am a 420 friendly pipe smoker but do not smoke in the house. I do not drink. I like mostly all music with few exceptions, I like the outdoors, nature, animals, travel, driving, bicycle rides, festivals, fairs, carnivals, concerts, yard sales, garage sales, antiquing, flea mkts., cuddling, laughing, jigsaw puzzles, cards, movies, conversation, camping, eating out, eating out, holding hands, walks, parks, watching people, junk food, passion, sharing, caring, the stars, Gods intricate wonders, I'm a little snarky but it's a work in progress. I believe that love breeds love as hate breeds hate. We all have our crosses to bare, baggage to carry and deal with at my age. I pay my own way and I will never ask you for money. I will never cheat… My dad was a cheater and I seen what it did to mom and how can you have a healthy loving relationship and cheat. I am not an abuser and I have no history of violence. I would make a good lap dog. I've been without companionship for well over a decade. It's time, I need someone in my life. My humor is better than Mr. Spock's but not as good as George Carlin or Robin Williams. I believe Jesus gave his life and blood to wash away our sins and on the third day he rose from the dead to sit at Gods side. I'm not into sports though I can tolerate them. I've been with nobody but my hand for over 10 year and can not have children because of a vasectomy I had years ago. also I've done many things like semi truck driver, nursing asst., Military drone pilot and still fly for a hobby. I've owned three businesses: Tattoo shop, cleaning service, and a communications business. I have three children all grown and on their own: Vince born 1975, Chris born 1976, and Clarissa born 1986 and I adopted her at age 7 with a woman that I had a 25 year relationship with. We grew apart and the last 10 years of our relationship was spent sleeping in separate beds. I own my car, I live in a three bedroom townhouse but thinking of moving to a two bedroom townhouse. I live in Hilliard, Ohio. And my hang outs is badtood@ gmail.com but still really in to much pain to chat. I do not have Whatsapp because it only works on a smart phone and hangouts will work on both my smart phone and my laptop. # seven, four, zero, six, three, seven, nine, two, nine, zero. I'd rather hear your voice and scammers avoid the phone and vid chat as best as they can. Please have patients with me………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………I believe love is a choice. You find the one that you believe is the right fit. Then you think of the compromises that you will need to make in order to have the relationship that you want. You sit in judgement of your choices and of your soul mate. After that you make a decision, knowing that there are no guarantees...you decide to give yourself heart & soul to that person in hopes that the other gives the same in return and more importantly knows what to do with the precious gift that they've been given. What I am looking for is: Everything, she will be my soul mate and give herself to me as I will give myself to her 100%. Must be truthful, trusting, loving, compassionate, passionate, think of her man above herself, and be able to give of her time plus so much more, her 100%. No fakers or cons! She will be my world and as such I would move heaven & hell to keep her happy & safe and still so much more. Truth, honesty, compassion, passion...I've had dozens upon dozens of hits...Mostly 20, 30, 40 year olds with their tits pushed out like their selling it. Others look like men with female cloths and makeup. A lot of them have been deactivated or not seen online for over a month. And the rest are scammers. Oh and let's not forget the ones that need citizenship. ..I've chatted with over 600 women while looking for my soul mate and they all end up asking me for money or card or something at one point or another for something. If that is your intention, don't. I know all their tricks, it's like they all go by the same handbook. And all scammers have something wrong with their phone or camera when it come time to video chat. No insult intended, I'm just sayin what has happen to me during my search for my soul mate… A few weeks ago I was con into driving to meet a woman from Mingle2 that didn't exist. I drove to Hungry Horse, Montana...4227 miles...63 hours just in drive time alone. Yeah people will do some of the dumbest damn things to find love. Maybe I'm a bit more gullible than most but I'd like to think it is determination to find the one I'll spend the rest of my life with. In time, I can come to you, we can walk together, hold hands, talk, hear each others laugh, and learn of one another. I would stay in a motel near to you. We could meet in a public place, what ever makes you feel safe short of you bring some BIG S.O.B. to scare me. I would call you from the motel to make those arrangements. Let's talk via: this web site messaging, text, video chat, phone, what ever it takes to tear down the walls to the rest of our lives together....I can relocate or you can, but don't let anything stand in the way of what you need in your life, especially if that's me! All that being said: I look forward to talking with you. Actions speak louder than words and trust is earned not just given. No insult intended but if you are then it's your conscience baby not me.