member offline nicknguyenzrd
45, Dana Point
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member offline nicknguyenzrd: Looking for something specific....


Basic:
45 year old Man, 6'2"(188 cm)
Seeking:
Woman, for Lets Hang Out / Chat / Friends
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body Type:
Thin
Personality:
Beach Bum
Profession:
HMFIC
Education:
Some College/University
Religion:
Non-religious
Misc:
Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, Drugs Sometimes
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More Details:

Martial Status:
Single
Hair Color:
Black
Eye Color:
Brown
Longest Relationship:
Over 1 year
Second Language:
No Second Language
My Exercise Habits:
5+ Times Per Week
Has Children?
No
Want Children?
Undecided
Has Pets?
No Pets
Has Car?
Yes
Political Views:
I Dont Follow Politics
Postal Zip Code Area:
92629, CA

About Me:

I live on the beach, looking for someone who wants to hang out on the beach all night, open to recreational enhancements if your down, and lets just kick and get to know one another, I am smart, honest and caring, been around, tired of being surrounded by shallow people, seeking depth, someone where we get lost in conversation till the sun comes up, thats my only expectation, seriously. If this sounds fun to you hit me up, summers almost over and life is to short, lets make some memorable.

My Ideal Match:

I prefer thin to average figure, sorry BBW. Is open to some recreational partying, thats down to earth and honest, a person that enjoys discussing things other than themselves, meaning of life etc. Seeking a real connection with another person.

Mail Requirements:

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    nicknguyenzrd Dana Point, California, USA
    Sep 1, 2026 2:44 AM GMT
    Braking Point-Why do we stay in bad relationships?

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    Why do we stay in bad relationships? Unhealthy relationships? Why is it so hard to walk away from someone that you know for multiple facts they are not good to you. They cheat, lie, mentally emotionally scar you traumatic none stop self a** people. There unwilling to change or actually do any work to grow with you claiming that love u. Yet.. For some stupid reason I'm saying the same bs, thinking I know as a grown man your not possibly that stupid to not know what your doing, how your hurting me and acting as if your not doing what your doing!? Still I kept trying, being in a relationship over 20yr Isn't something u just throw away right? Been years of destruction do you just give up? How do u walk away from people who blindly carelessly just keep crushing ur heart? Why do I stay? Why do I do this to myself?
    I mean at this point enough is enough ya know,right? People force you to not be apart of them there life because they are so clueless, selfish and only care of there own needs,then turn around blame you! As if you have a choice?! How's there a choice for me? I'm not unrealistic reasonable for unfair right? Please tell me?! Walking away was the right thing to do period! Right?



    First you need to learn to love yourself. Know your worth! If your as down as you claim, like a ride or die type chick, with the right partner, you would want for nothing, and have everything you want. Its that powerful. Its a mutual respect for one another, that each will look out for the other as they would themselves. This elevates both so long as you share the same goals, together anythings possible.. Why you put up with someone cheating on you? How can you expect anyone to respect you, if you cant even respect yourself. Its hard truth but 20 years wasted, you need to hear it! You only have this one life, and you aint getting any younger, every day that passes, you losing value, cause beauty fades for women, its just the truth. Your man dont have to worry about that, so he can just keep running the clock, he can find a younger chick any time. So stop asking questions you already know the answers to, cause aint no one gonna to make the change for you, so you either step up, and start living for you, or just own where your at and be content with what you got. You stay in bad relationships cause you think thats all you deserve, or you refuse to see what a good relationship would be like. Hopefully I was able to help you get a glimpse of whats possible, true love is a two way street, sounds like you may be on a one way, and when two people truly commit to that union together for each other, it can move mountains, it will change you, and everyone around you. You will feel fullfilled and empowered. You need someone that sees you, cherishes you, and truly loves you. Plenty of fish in the sea girl, your pretty, stop settling, and get more out life, before its to late. I really hope you do!
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