member offline Snarky
43, Jefferson
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member offline Snarky: Want someone to have fun with


Basic:
43 year old Woman, 5'8" (173 cm)
Seeking:
Woman, for Casual Dating / No Commitment
Ethnicity:
Caucasian
Body Type:
Some Extra Pounds
Personality:
Humanist
Profession:
Video Editor (temporary inactive)
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Religion:
Non-religious
Misc:
Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, No Drugs
Match Summary:

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More Details:

Martial Status:
Single
Hair Color:
Brown
Eye Color:
Hazel
Longest Relationship:
Over 9 years
Second Language:
No Second Language
My Exercise Habits:
3-4 Times Per Week
Has Children?
No
Want Children?
Undecided
Has Pets?
Dog(s)
Has Car?
Yes
Political Views:
Socialist
Postal Zip Code Area:
12093, NY

About Me:

It's kind of funny I'm not really that good at meeting people. I tend to be very shy when I don't know someone, but once I do, I can be extremely gregarious.

I'm MtF trans, i transitioned years ago, so if that's not something that works for you, no worries. I hope you find your person! I also have ADHD and OCD. I take medication to keep it manageable, but I know that's not compatible with some folks. I'm also poor, so I can't afford to do expensive things, but I'm also NOT looking to mooch of someone.

In general, I'm pretty open about who I am, so if you want to know something, feel free to ask.

I try to be very open minded about things and try to not be judgy and just help folks when I can. Part of the reason my political views, which tend to be rather progressive.

I have a lot of intrests and love to learn new things. There are so many amazing things I wish I had the time and resources to learn and experience.

Here's a list of stuff I tend to love:

Roller Derby, I'm not a great skater, but hopefully when my work schedule improves I can go back to practice and try to get decent.

Comic books, I've been collecting since I was 12 and my collection is rather large.

History, I love the story of things and how they got to be the way they are. My interest is all over the place, but I really like the history of cultural things like food or language over military history.

Movies, I love all sorts of films. I like watching stuff with others so we can talk about it afterwards. I also love bad movies and will always love MST3K. I have a B.A. in film production that I'll be paying off for the rest of my life. I used to work as a video editor. Freelancing in upstate NY was not sustainable, so I'm currently working a survival job, but I hope to get back into making stuff eventually.

I love music, there's good music in almost any genre and I love hearing something new. Currently, two I'm listening to are Patty Gurty and Thomas Benjamin Wild, Esq.

I love the outdoors and am fascinated with the natural world. So if you're into hiking I'm game.

I love all sorts of games and am a fan of tabletops, but I've rarely had people to play with. I have a lot of old Vampire the Masquerade books, (Pre-2005) and would love to find people to play a retro campaign with.

I like reading and am willing to give most things recommended to me a try. I'll always have a soft spot for fantasy, Raymond Chandler detective novels, and old lesbian pulp fiction.

I love to cook and love to be creative with the food I make.

I'm good at fixing things. If I don't know how to do something, I'm willing to admit I don't know, but I'm also willing to try to figure it out. I try to do as much work on my car by myself, mostly to save money, but also because it's fun.

I only moved back up here a little while ago and don't really know anyone.

My Ideal Match:

I'm not looking for anything too serious right now. If something developed, I'm open to it, but right now I just want to have fun with someone interesting, genuine and kind.

I want to be with someone who is willing to share their thoughts and interests with me and wants the same from me. We should be able to argue about those ideas without attacking and hurting each other.

I want to be with someone who can appreciate dark, dry or absurd humor.

I want to be with someone who's not afraid to try something silly, isn't overly interested in keeping up appearances. Also someone who cares about being genuinely courteous to folks, (unless the other person is acting like a jerk and then they stand up for themselves.)

I also need someone who's understanding with me. Part of
my ADHD makes if very hard for me to be punctual. It's never a case of me not caring as much as having issues with time management. I'm not hopeless, it's just hard for me.

The other thing is someone who wants to take charge in intimate situations, but treats me like an equal in situations outside of that.

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