So I wasn't going to even put anything in this field because I am 37 years old and kinda stubborn. Not once in my dating/relationship career have I had to resort to "this". I was always the life of the party, made girls laugh, wasn't overly aggressive in my approach, and in most cases let my overzealous, over confident friends make fools of themselves first. They thought first come first serve was the way girls selected guys because it worked once for them when the girl was probably drunk. In my head "dating sites" were for socially awkward individuals who had no hobbies other than sitting in front of their computer or video game system. Or in some cases the eating area in their residence. Now readers please, I'm sure some of you may be stopping and thinking, "what an arrogant, judgmental, heartless, shallow ***hole. I have been the socially awkward over eater, the video gamer, and a movie watching addict too! Thank God life experiences have made me more open to everything, and honestly the really bad life experiences of enormous proportion that cause brain trauma (not physical harm), but rather emotional and psychological trauma; have taught me a kind of empathetic concern for the human race that I did not think was possible. So, I decided after reading a profile on here that really jumped out and kind of mesmerized me for a second, I would write something... I am an imperfect human being that makes mistakes (and probably enjoys sex too much ; ) lol) BUT is not a mistake. I consistently remember that my past does not dictate my future. I understand that I cannot expect to receive a mainline blessing when I put forth a sideline commitment. And the best way to get what I want is to help someone get what they want. I have learned the excruciatingly hard way that practicing this type of thinking and self motivation is truly the pathway to joy. I do not believe human beings were created to be alone. I believe human beings, to be truly at the top of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, need someone in their life; long term relationship or friendship/date/hookup/devoted marriage/friends with benefits/(whichever it is in a given season of life) to share their experiences, knowledge, pivotal moments, monumental achievements etc. with! And with the dust settling am now wanting to explore finding someone. So message me!