Jholden: International traveler who is very kinky
I’m undoubtedly a Dom but see myself as a benevolent Dom. The well-being, safety, and pleasure of my sub is what drives me. As contradictory as it may seem it’s not about me but rather being accountable and taking control.
However, my benevolence and kindness should never be construed as weakness. I’m strong-willed, experienced, and have clear expectations from my sub/bottom partner.
I’m open to meeting people but have no preset expectations, other than safety and respect for all. I am on an eternal journey to discover my inner self, and often that is through experiences with others.
I am not flippant about selecting my play partners. Engaging in BDSM for me is about vulnerability. That goes for both the Dom and Sub. That level of vulnerability transcends acts of intercourse or the pretense of rough sex. So please be mindful in what you seek.
I travel extensively and have no ability to commit to a traditional relationship. If you are interested in learning more don’t be shy to reach out, say hello, ask a question, engage in banter and you never know where it will go. I don’t bite…( too hard ;)