Affairs - Good or Bad (5)

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  • MeltWithYou Dating Profile
    May 15, 2024 9:16 PM UTC
    I've had friends in long term marriages where one of the two people no longer stay interested in having physical intimacy. For one of them them, have an extra-marital partner seems to have kept that part satisfied, while staying committed to their spouse in all other ways. For my other friend (he lost interest but was a good husband in all other ways) she was the one who found someone to satisfy her physically.

    I fall into that :love my wife of 39 year's, but she's lost interest in sex, and isn't really driven to get better. I won't leave her, but there's an important piece that's not satisfied and driving me crazy. Thoughts?
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    GoddessGigi 3 Posts Alton, Illinois, USA
    May 17, 2024 2:13 PM UTC
    Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?
  • MeltWithYou Dating Profile
    May 17, 2024 8:38 PM UTC

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    Have you told her that you would like to open your relationship so that you can get that intimacy need your craving met?



    Yes - and I just got a "how could you even think that?" kind of look... Thanks for asking ..
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    Uncut4wild 7 Posts Boston, Massachusetts, USA
    Jun 8, 2024 6:01 PM UTC

    Quote:
    I've had friends in long term marriages where one of the two people no longer stay interested in having physical intimacy. For one of them them, have an extra-marital partner seems to have kept that part satisfied, while staying committed to their spouse in all other ways. For my other friend (he lost interest but was a good husband in all other ways) she was the one who found someone to satisfy her physically.

    I fall into that :love my wife of 39 year's, but she's lost interest in sex, and isn't really driven to get better. I won't leave her, but there's an important piece that's not satisfied and driving me crazy. Thoughts?


    Marriage isn’t just about sex but intimacy and connection. Release. It’s not fair when I hear that one person in the marriage is not wanting sex AT ALL. I don’t think it’s fair to cheat but I’m not the married, sexless one. Obviously every marriage and situation is different but I could not be in a sexless relationship unless we had an understanding.
  • Socurious4u Dating Profile
    Socurious4u 3 Posts Meadview, Arizona, USA
    Jun 12, 2024 5:46 PM UTC
    Bad, Bad and even more Bad idea!!
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