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member offline ink01: Female Seeking Companionship


Basic:
48 year old Woman, 5'5" (165 cm)
Seeking:
Man, for Lets Hang Out / Chat / Friends
Ethnicity:
Caucasian
Body Type:
Some Extra Pounds
Personality:
Bookworm
Profession:
Writer
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Religion:
Non-religious
Misc:
Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, No Drugs
Match Summary:

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More Details:

Martial Status:
Separated
Hair Color:
Brown
Eye Color:
Brown
Longest Relationship:
Over 20 years
Second Language:
No Second Language
My Exercise Habits:
5+ Times Per Week
Has Children?
Yes
Want Children?
Undecided
Has Pets?
No Pets
Has Car?
Yes
Political Views:
I Dont Follow Politics
Postal Zip Code Area:
91319, CA

About Me:

I'm a 48 year-old-woman women seeking engaging male companionship. Full disclosure: I'm separated but will be divorcing after 24 years of marriage. It's been an unfulfilling marriage due to lack of affection and intimacy, plus other factors. I'm looking to finally enjoy life fully, though keep in mind I'm not super wild by nature--not into drugs or a strong party scene. For now, I'm looking for hangouts or casual dating, but I'm definitely not opposed to more in the future if all goes well with someone.

I'm a writer and am getting heavy back into penning new novels and marketing the ones I already have out. In the past, I worked in the human services field and have a bachelor's in psychology.

As for my hobbies, I love to exercise and go for walks. I'm very active and go to the gym every day or exercise at home. At the gym, I enjoy dance fitness and strength-training classes, plus the other occasional class like pilates or barre. It's not a must, but a male who likes fitness would be a plus. I'm toying with the idea of becoming a fitness instructor but am undecided. I do carry some extra weight in my midsection but have great legs. Unfortunately, any extra weight goes to my midsection, not my hips, thighs, or butt if that's important to you.

I've been told I look young for my age and have a great smile. I think I'm a nice, funny person who is at least reasonably attractive. At first, I'm on the quiet side as an introvert/ambivert but am quite friendly and smile at lot. I'm loyal to a fault (probably too loyal at times when the person no longer warrants it) and have been described as very kind.

I also enjoy movies and reading (mostly reading!). Fantasy is my jam. Love Lord of the Rings but also Jane Austin's works. I'm up for many other activities, too.

I have a 23-year-old and a tween.

Feel free to reach out if any of this piques your interest!




My Ideal Match:

I'm pretty open and am mainly looking for someone who is kind, not overly judgmental, and can communicate without sulking or stonewalling. Someone who won't play head games. Appearance is secondary to me. Personality is what keeps me attracted to someone. Looks mean little if personalties clash or if the other person is obnoxious or dismissive.

After being stuck in a marriage where I was stonewalled and ignored if I did something to displease him (which seemed to be all the time), I crave being around an affectionate, warm man! I don't expect perfection, though, and I have no wild standards to meet.