DominantInclinations: Good day and happy hunting from "the fringe"
My name on here eludes to a relating style brought to light by the "50 shades" series but my interest pre-dates the books by several decades. It's not compulsory, rather a "leaning" and a role assumed easily (with some significant depth for those seeking the diversion). In words of one syllable, it's not necessary to relate this way when there are so many other ways!
If you think punctuation, proper English, respect of your peers and precision in your endeavors are important... then we'll probably see eye to eye on a few things.
If you think waiting on the government to give you something is vogue and aren't driven to succeed despite the obstacles put in our way BY that government...well, we might not agree. lol
Spirituality without organized religion, prayer without structure or rhetoric and anonymously provided charity...the start of a long list of personal tenets
While my vocational pursuits take me hither and yon, my whereabouts are predictable enough to carry on a quasi-normal relationship. Conventional LTRs aren't something that someone who conducts their business like I do (and there are a lot of travelers out here) CAN have. That said, a "short term relationship" in my book is 3-4 years. I actively pursue a semblance of normalcy and do what I can to feel "off duty" with the right person.
A lot of guys on these types of sites look to get women on their backs and in my informal survey over the years...it is explainable, somewhat. If you can understand something, then you can predict it more accurately. Pictures of fish, motorcycles and other things can put you on the look out for "hoosier" tendancies. Not that I have anything against outdoor activities but...you know what I mean.
An intellectual balance with physical attraction? That's the magic we're seeking. Just make sure your prospect has more than one dimension. More than two and you've passed up 80% of the fish already so good for you! lol