Libbyshuman: I probably won't turn your head on the street...

But you'll likely remember me if we have a conversation. I'm a lifelong student which in and of itself is a challenge. I love to learn. But I'm also discerning and only interested in truth so if you voted for the orange one, we likely won't find common ground.

I've lived a unique life in that I've followed my heart and scratched a lot of my curiosity itches along the way. Gang counselor on a wagon train treatment program (I walked from outside Phoenix, AZ to Salt Lake City via Yuma and the Colorado River), drove cab in Portland, OR a couple years, have been a road carpenter following commercial jobs across the country, was a prosthetic/orthotic tech another lifetime ago, and tried office work once. I hitchhiked a loop from Missouri to Alabama to California about 15 times during and shortly following college to visit family. I guess one could say I have a sense of adventure along with humor, right and wrong, all blended with a well honed sense of self.

About 12 years ago, I asked myself a tough question. "What is wrong with growing old and dying alone?" When I got honest with myself and came to the conclusion nothing was wrong with this potential reality, the baggage I'd collected over so many years just melted away freeing me to feel this sense of self and contentment like I hadn't known previously. Granted I'd love to meet the love of my life but the years are waning to hold out for that wish to come to fruition. The end result is I love living in the moment and with whomever I might be sharing time with.

I love spontaneity and boldness. I have a wonderful companion, LIbby, who is with me most of the time and my favorite creature on the planet aside from my best friend, my dad. Relationships are important and I don't use the term 'friend' lightly. I've managed to find the other side of an addiction and am stronger for the journey. Finding myself in this life is nothing short of miraculous after those years for which I'm eternally grateful to be past now. Through it all, I've managed to hold tenaciously onto my idealism while keeping my feet planted in realism. I have a deep compassion for the homeless, the less priviledged, the common person so often cast aside in the unfairness of this life. I help when I can and try to maintain my humility through it all.

Getting older isn't for the faint of heart and I'm facing the realities of slowing down physically while my mind is still sharp and agile. I hope I can meet someone who can keep up with that part of me.

Some activities I love are listening to music which I've considered an investment in my own mental health by acquiring quality components to enjoy, taking drives along roads I've never traveled, prospecting, taking pictures, and random conversations with people in the spur of the moment. I have substance, texture, and a good heart with a strong mind. I'm also passionate and unafraid to talk on deeper emotional levels when I feel comfortable with someone.

And for what it's worth, I've enjoyed a couple relationships with younger women who became comfortable calling me daddy. I'm not a dom per se but definitely enjoy the learning process of what pleases a woman along with carrying that learning into actual daily actions.

If any of this piques your interest or curiosity, please do reach out and let's see where a conversation may lead us. And if you're across the country from me, unless you're willing to relocate to where I am, it's rather senseless to click on want to hang out. I'm really only interested in women local to my area of southern Oregon. I'm basically searching for a fellow hedonist who wants to live each day as if it were our last.

Good hearted, smart, seasoned woman who won't play games with my heart or work from an agenda based upon selfishness.

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