member offline TransPartyChic
44, Orem
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member offline TransPartyChic: This girl just wants to have fun or find love, OR both


Basic:
44 year old Woman, 5'9" (175 cm)
Seeking:
Woman, for Casual Dating / No Commitment
Ethnicity:
Caucasian
Body Type:
Average
Personality:
Free Thinker
City:
Profession:
Healthcare then full time mom
Education:
Some College/University
Religion:
Non-religious
Misc:
Smokes Sometimes, Drinks Sometimes, Drugs Sometimes
Match Summary:

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More Details:

Martial Status:
Widowed
Hair Color:
Red
Eye Color:
Green
Longest Relationship:
Over 5 years
Second Language:
German
My Exercise Habits:
I Don't Exercise Often
Has Children?
Yes
Want Children?
Prefer not to say
Has Pets?
No Pets
Has Car?
Yes
Political Views:
I Dont Follow Politics

About Me:

I love to sing karaoke and cook and eat and play and sleep. It's been 11 years since I've been with anyone and my newly awakened libido is letting me know every minute of every day lol I'm not really into sports I don't watch much TV I do play video games with my son but not a lot I like to fix computers and build them and like I said I love to sing mostly '90s and '80s musics I've been doing it for about 4 years now.

My Ideal Match:

I'm gonna face reality one more time, and if it spits in my face like every other time ever, then I will know nothing is wrong with the world, it's just me. And that will be a big relief, for me anyway. I honestly think I just have really luck, and every time I turn around I'm getting on and I just need someone to complain to and believe in me, knowing I will stand by them through all the uglies life has in store.

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    TransPartyChic OP Orem, Utah, USA
    Dec 10, 2023 6:20 PM GMT
    Single Moms needing affectionI am really getting sick of this online "dating" I am a widow, I lost my wife 12 years ago, just 9 months after our only son was born. He turns 13 in a few weeks. I haven't dated, kissed, bought a drink, made my 5 star dinners or even huged a woman romantically in 12 years. All humans need physical contact to be heathy, and my body and mind have been craving the touch of a woman like I never knew was possible. I am over 40, no real money to speak of, very limited emotional support abilities at the moment and have a few mental issues because of all the trauma I've been through. BUT
    I am aware of the issues and working on them.
    I've quit drinking
    Quit my little drug habit
    Will be quit with smoking cigs in 2 days
    have demonstrated my parental abilities by neither neglecting or abusing my son in any way, ever.
    I posses a very high IQ which makes problem solving and reason first nature, meaning I have a SOLID grasp on reality with enough experience to help you get whatever you really want out of life. But All I really want in a partner to experience life with, on nearly any romantic level.Kiss smilie emoji/emoticon smiley
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    TransPartyChic Orem, Utah, USA
    Dec 10, 2023 6:10 PM GMT
    How long does it take to mend a broken heart?

    Quote:
    I’ve had my heart broken several times in the past and now that I’ve grown more mature I’m trying to remember how long it took me to heal after each heart break.



    It takes as long as it takes. There are so many variable only your best guess based on experience would even be and educated guess. Example: I was married for 5 years after dating for just over 1 year. Then one morning she didn't wake up. 10 years later I started to be able to tell that my mourning stage was starting to lift. That was 2 years ago, and it's not much better, but I finally am able to admit to myself I need human interaction on a physical lever. (I didn't kiss, date, screw or anything to anyone since she passed for a decade, i had just lost interest in life) but now. 12 years after losing her, I am on 3 "dating sites" and finding it overwhelming and 1000 times more difficult than I imagined. But I need to feel something again.

    Hope that helped
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    TransPartyChic Orem, Utah, USA
    Dec 10, 2023 6:04 PM GMT
    what do you find attractive in women

    Quote:
    I'm sure this question has been asked many times before, but looking back I can't find any answer. So boys, what feature do you find most attractive in a woman?


    Personally, It seems impossible, when standing face to face with a woman; to find something I don't find attractive.

    From their soft facial features that make the always seem alluring and sexy without effort. Then I notice her exposed skin, whatever she wants to show me, and again I'm getting hard inside seeing how hairless and round all her edges are. Then if we kiss, the taste of her send me reeling, like every is like the first time, so enticing and wet with anticipation or waves of ecstasy that will soon be uncontrollable. Which makes my lip tremble and legs go weak. And I realize that time has taken on a mind of is own because what feels like the fist few minutes we are seeing each other in this hot new perspective, it's actually been nearly an hour.

    I could go on an on, but I think I may have answered your question Rose smilie emoji/emoticon smiley

    Then again, I'm a hopeless romantic, that could derive my pleasure from inducing pleasure on women and help them discover their bodies and erroneous zones all in the same love making session. Often making me o*gasm many times..
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    TransPartyChic Orem, Utah, USA
    Aug 22, 2023 9:39 PM GMT
    Why is online dating too difficult to maintain?

    Quote:
    So like I've been on and off in online dating for years now. I'm 23 now and I started like 17 or almost 18 I think? Sure, I've met some guys online but never in person since I really wanted to be with a foreigner. Even just talking online, I too had to deal with heartaches as well.

    What's your story? Or do you have something to say or give advice perhaps?



    Hi I'm Liz. I was born male, but by the age of 3 my parents should have known I was Transgender. but they ignored it. and punished me for being feminine. Anyway I got married, met her in Norman actually, and we were married nearly immediatly after my fifth asking lol. that was 16 years ago, she died just before our 5 anniversary. So I haven't been with anyone for 12 years nearly.l My only suggestion is when you sleep w someone you create a bond. Physics can't approve it and they cant deley it dotjes/ and that cond can be a tool if you use it as such to take down other barrieeres in your life. Just give it all a little patience :)
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