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Feminism Wasn't a Reaction to Opression

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This video contains information and commentary about the true origins of feminism that is never taught or even acknowledged in main stream America. It also shows that women were never really oppressed but lived as they do now with much privilege while it's been men who have been and are still the ones who are truly oppressed.

Usually when it comes to claims, I personally avoid never and always statements because there could have been one or two flukes or exceptions throughout history. Today, when men become unemployed and lose the residency requirements to vote, it is ignored. Feminists ignore the sexism in the other direction and oppression of other groups especially when it goes against them or their agenda. Females generally do not go out in the field and work for eight hours a day for decades. The video also pointed out that the majority of men did not have a choice of women. This is so true today, even to the point that women are begging good men to go back to popular dating sites. Personally, I would probably argue that men and women were oppressed as well as many other groups back then, but oppressed much less than other places around the world at the time if one views things from that perspective.

Some incorrectly turn from issues of biological sexism to gender. If gender cannot be known, then how can you be sure someone else is oppressed by their gender? If anyone can be either gender or something else, then the gender pay gap could be males who were underpaid under a different gender ...; that is without even taking into account that women choose easier jobs, lower-paying jobs, and low-risk jobs, and that varies by job or career field, place, and time.

It is sad that feminism destroys good and neutral men because of being against the patriarchy which as was pointed out merely means the father should be the head of the family. If they were truly for equality they would be against matriarchies too.

Feminism also hurts women because many women do not get to reproduce or they reproduce less than other women. (That was someone else's point on another video and not my own so I don't get accused of plagiarism.)

It was sad that I lived through a time when the radical left was censoring videos from youtube and others like PragerU because they showed what was happening or how the left was wrong.

WHY SOME MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING?

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Why do many more women blame men for things men can't control?

Men generally do not expect women to be problem solvers since they are worse at problem solving. If women are more emotional, it would make sense that they should be better at managing, dealing, or knowing emotions.

Unresolved issues? You do realize the women-are-victims world we are living in, right? Now there are some unresolved issues!

Women could not even handle pretending to be a man for a week! Just look at how women came out crying and ending the experiments of dating as a man in youtube videos, getting rejection after rejection if they were even noticed at all!

Unfortunately, women won't accept equality and division of labor. They won't cook, clean, get laundry done, sweep, deal with trash, sew, or earn the money a household needs to survive without resorting to selling themselves in a bad way if you know what I mean.

Admit mistakes? No, that is a bad idea for a man since a woman will hold that against a man forever without ever admitting her own mistakes. Personally, I am more concerned with living a good present and future.

Imagine if women ended up in jail for being unable to pay for children. That would be equality!

Do most women make six-figure salaries? Are they six-feet and five inches tall? Are they in the top five percent looks-wise? Then why should women expect that nowadays?

Men are the first to be fired and the last to be hired for the nice jobs. Hard labor is another story.

Huh? You point out the low self esteem of women, but ignore it or blame something else if men have low self-esteem.

If I so much as got caught messaging other women while dating on a dating site years ago, there would be deep trouble! This was true even if the type and boundaries of the relationships were ill- or undefined. Nowadays, many women who are taken message other men! So much for equality! Such a double-standard!

Shared responsibility should only apply if it is shared, and even then only to the degree each is responsible.

Women are more often or more greatly responsible for household chaos, career struggles, and relationship issues.

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I only respond to profles with photos in my posts. In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity.

If you are reluctant to post here, you may send one DM to me,

In an online world where slanderous or libelous original posts and threads break the code of conduct, clearly posting my own recent photos would be extrememly stupid or a bad idea. As stated before, it doesn't help men much anyway, but harms since men are looked down upon, discriminated against, and have their pictures used against them. I was not asking you for a response. It was an explanation with questions and realizations. You are not for love or equality while you spew misandrist vitriol and are against it in the other direction! Even in your own profile, you admit you don't do video chats or telephone conversations making you inauthentic! I honestly do not know whether to block you, report you, or both.

WHY SOME MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING?Why do many more women blame men for things men can't control?

Men generally do not expect women to be problem solvers since they are worse at problem solving. If women are more emotional, it would make sense that they should be better at managing, dealing, or knowing emotions.

Unresolved issues? You do realize the women-are-victims world we are living in, right? Now there are some unresolved issues!

Women could not even handle pretending to be a man for a week! Just look at how women came out crying and ending the experiments of dating as a man in youtube videos, getting rejection after rejection if they were even noticed at all!

Unfortunately, women won't accept equality and division of labor. They won't cook, clean, get laundry done, sweep, deal with trash, sew, or earn the money a household needs to survive without resorting to selling themselves in a bad way if you know what I mean.

Admit mistakes? No, that is a bad idea for a man since a woman will hold that against a man forever without ever admitting her own mistakes. Personally, I am more concerned with living a good present and future.

Imagine if women ended up in jail for being unable to pay for children. That would be equality!

Do most women make six-figure salaries? Are they six-feet and five inches tall? Are they in the top five percent looks-wise? Then why should women expect that nowadays?

Men are the first to be fired and the last to be hired for the nice jobs. Hard labor is another story.

Huh? You point out the low self esteem of women, but ignore it or blame something else if men have low self-esteem.

If I so much as got caught messaging other women while dating on a dating site years ago, there would be deep trouble! This was true even if the type and boundaries of the relationships were ill- or undefined. Nowadays, many women who are taken message other men! So much for equality! Such a double-standard!

Shared responsibility should only apply if it is shared, and even then only to the degree each is responsible.

Women are more often or more greatly responsible for household chaos, career struggles, and relationship issues.

Are you really here to meet a woman?

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Show some respect please. We women want to be wooed. Not hit with d*ck picks and perversions. There will be plenty of time for that later.
If you wouldn't send it to your mother, you shouldn't be sending it to us.
The best part of a relationship is always the beginning. Getting to know each other. The uncontrollable emotional rollercoaster. The thrill of the spark. The want and needing of more. The need for constant communication. The first kiss. And then.... Snuggling up on the couch, watching a movie, sharing a bowl of popcorn, and talking about how awkward it was when we first started dating.
But you have to make it there first. If you are really here to meet a woman then treat her like deserves to be treated. Keep your d*ck in your pants and save the dirty talk for the " bedroom" until it feels right for the both of you.

Are you really here to meet a woman? No, I am here for good, high quality women.

Yes, this seems to be the entitlement a lot of women have, that men have to make it there first. Many men do not send those bad kinds of pictures. If a man treats her good, she disrespects him; drags it on; uses him for his money, power, knowledge, connections, or labor; loses desire; looks elsewhere; or moves on.

Should middle schoolers be dating?

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No, middle schoolers should not be dating unless you mean something like a group of families with mature adults are going to the bowling alley, and there will be no sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, piercings, tattoos, and so on.

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Please post pictures to show your identitiy.

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That is irrelevant to the truth of the response to the original post. Pictures do not necessarily show one's identity, but they can still be used against someone.

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You lack knowledge.
In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity. Most online dating platforms require profile pictures to ensure user and safety privacy– beyond the obvious benefits of being able to see other users, verified profile pics increase security and user safety.

I only respond to profiles with pictures in my posts.

You also lack knowledge, but you ignored my points and threw some red herrings. Profile pictures are swiped off the net to be used by those in power. If you or your group was severely discrimintated against and persecuted, you might understand a little better. This dating platform is different than other platforms. Forcing people to have their pictures stolen lowers privacy and safety. Oh, now you argue a picture should be verified by some bad authority? That sounds like a terrible idea. You post a lot of links to or of youtube or AI pictures or video. That is suspicious. A lot of websites also forbid links. One might think someone with your supposed level of education would be smarter than this ...