Me recently (Nov. 2025)
member offline CityLightsIowa4u
51, West Des Moines
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member offline CityLightsIowa4u: I’m a Mature male seeking a mature single female in Iowa.


Basic:
51 year old Man, 5'8" (173 cm)
Seeking:
Woman, for Long Term Relationship
Ethnicity:
Caucasian
Body Type:
Average
Personality:
Hipster
Profession:
Self-employed
Education:
High school
Religion:
Other
Misc:
Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, No Drugs
Me recently (Nov. 2025)
Me recently (Nov. 2025)
Me recently (Nov. 2025)
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More Details:

Martial Status:
Single
Hair Color:
Brown
Eye Color:
Brown
Longest Relationship:
Over 6 years
Second Language:
No Second Language
My Exercise Habits:
3-4 Times Per Week
Has Children?
No
Want Children?
No
Has Pets?
No Pets
Has Car?
Yes
Political Views:
I Dont Follow Politics
Postal Zip Code Area:
50310, IA

About Me:

I’m a single respectful kind loving and enjoyable comforting decent looking mature guy. (51) I’m seeking a mature single lady between;43 & 52, and I own my own house in a decent neighborhood. I’m a (non-smoker) but it doesn’t bother me as long as it’s not in my presence, b/c it makes me sick. I occasionally drink, smoke a little pot, but only on special occasions.

I’m not sure if i want to be committed yet, but
i do want a single lady in my life. If it turns into something serious then will deal with thst when it happens, if it happens.

I’m not sure about being committed to someone. yet. Hopefully you who choosers me will understand. Take it a step at a time, right?

I don’t have any kids, nor have I wanted any in my past. It won’t matter anyway because most single mature women sons/daughters are all grown up.

Im new here as I arrived on Nov. 19, 2025, so I don’t know my way around this site yet. Hopefully I will find someone quick so that I quickly get off here.

It’s all good comfort vibes with me.

Sincerely CityLights

My Ideal Match:

Seeking real single mature woman I connect with in a real respectfully honest way whose in my area or near, who owns her home like me, and wants one on one love partnership and relationship.

That’s if we connectively—comfortably—respectfully—and really fee it with each other in a real—honestly—connectively—feeling—thinking way iwith each other.

I am waiting 4 that 2 really happen on here but for some reason I don’t think it’ll happen, but you don’t really know. Waiting 4 her 2 come meet up with me, then I’ll know 4 sure.

Sincerely me—CityLights4u✌️👫🤙

Mail Requirements:

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   Sender must be Male.
   Sender must be from the following country: United States.
   Message must be at mininum 50 characters long.
   Sender must have a profile picture.
   Sender must be older than 43 years old and younger than 52 years old.
   Sender must be located within 10 miles of this user.

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