Dating Over 50 stinks.....LOL (26)

this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

Yup, i remember it being a lot easier when I was younger.. I think the years off the market may have made my game rusty

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

I lost my wife 2 1/2 years ago. Guess I've always had that subdued wild streak, being independent and very spontaneous over 50. well that's another story 😆 and plenty of them. Grass doesn't grow under my arce. I've been searching for an activities partner, travel companionship, friend, romance I think you understand where I'm coming from. Where is Buna TX?

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

I will be in Houston Jun 17 18 maybe meet half way for dinner ! Tom tsw2klho

I blinked and now on 50... I'm too young to be this old

YUP!

You know you're old when:

You FART and it throws your back out!

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

Straight up sux !!! I havent dated in 25 yrs, It all seems to be done on platform's like this. Its just not me. I hate it.

I try talking to women now a days and the rules have changed so much I don't know what to do.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

OMG.. yes!!!!!!

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

You would Think that It would be Easier
But this Boy -Girl Thing
Seems so Complicated Still
It Should Not, Have to be so Difficult
And
The
Age Location Kids stuff Geeze
By Now Why Can't we Get Over ourselves and be a Little More Open to Possibilities ? ? ?

I’m starting over again, but no one seems interested in old fashioned romance and LTC everyone just want to hop into bed, sorry, I’m Christian not happening. Where are all the good guys? Or should I just give up?

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I’m starting over again, but no one seems interested in old fashioned romance and LTC everyone just want to hop into bed, sorry, I’m Christian not happening. Where are all the good guys? Or should I just give up?

While I'm not looking for a long term non sexual relationship, I think someone looking for a long term relationship should be willing to work within the prospective partners comfort zone. While I'm not opposed to sex on the first date, I'm not expecting it either. But then I'm looking for sex within a loving relationship. I think that involves not pushing someone into something before they are comfortable with it.
Thom

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

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Yup, i remember it being a lot easier when I was younger.. I think the years off the market may have made my game rusty

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Over and Over, I have conceded that I will be alone until I die, what the hell, you die alone anyway.

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I’m starting over again, but no one seems interested in old fashioned romance and LTC everyone just want to hop into bed, sorry, I’m Christian not happening. Where are all the good guys? Or should I just give up?

No, don't give up, there are some out there, I have been alone since 2008 when my wife died, I can't find a woman that could come close to filling her shoes, we treated each other so well, I'm very lucky to have found her. And now I'm too old to find a good woman because none exist.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

maybe you are using the wrong bait

I am, LilKat... but you look a lot younger than 50?

Dave

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

. Well , if you put an age limit of a 100 in your profile you will get more responses. I tried sending you a message but system won't allow it.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

I completely agree.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

Yesbit really sucks in Kentucky.

The only thing that has changed is us...we are not as young and stupid, so we avoid all the wierd ones, crazy ones, self centered ones, needy ones, greedy ones, strung out ones etc. Most of us have enough experience to recognize " she ain't it" in about 5 minutes. So that target has become super small now. We know what we want, so even though there are still a mountain of rocks out there, we just keep walking past all the rubble looking for that one we recognize has a gold nugget in there. Keep looking, the nuggets are out there.

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I try talking to women now a days and the rules have changed so much I don't know what to do.

Hello,

Hang in there and be yourself. They will either like you or not. It is the ones that are genuine that get happy ever after.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

Hello,

I am a widowed 51yo female with a teen. Been off the market for over 15 years. Trying to get back in is hard. It is either they want to be intimate right off the bat or money. Whatever happen to the good guys? Good at heart, soul, and mind. . Cherish the other like they do you with love, honesty, respect, faithfulness. Loyalty, etc... it doesn't help to that I am Big and Beautiful.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

because so many idiots a not truthful and they are scammers so it makes it tuff on honest guys.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

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because so many idiots a not truthful and they are scammers so it makes it tuff on honest guys.

I like to look at it as opportunity to new adventures. Yes, there are a lot of lying people. You weed out the weenies as best you can. Take your safety seriously. You can leave anytime you don't feel comfortable. You just never know when the chemistry will be good. You can't win if you don't enter.

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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?

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because so many idiots a not truthful and they are scammers so it makes it tuff on honest guys.

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I like to look at it as opportunity to new adventures. Yes, there are a lot of lying people. You weed out the weenies as best you can. Take your safety seriously. You can leave anytime you don't feel comfortable. You just never know when the chemistry will be good. You can't win if you don't enter.

Looking for an honest long term relationship. I will be in Vegas next week (Mar 12-14). Would you be interested in chatting, perhaps meet at a location that you prefer for lunch/dinner.