Thom_w: Let's meet and see where it goes

Basic:

73 year old Man, 5'7" (170 cm)

Seeking:

Woman, for Long Term Relationship

Ethnicity:

Caucasian

Body Type:

Thin

Personality:

Hopeless Romantic

City:

San Jose, California, United States

Profession:

Stationary Engineer

Education:

Some College/University

Religion:

Non-religious

Misc:

Non-smoker, Drinks Sometimes, No Drugs

Match Summary:

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More Details:

Martial Status:

Widowed

Hair Color:

Brown

Eye Color:

Hazel

Longest Relationship:

Over 30 years

Second Language:

No Second Language

My Exercise Habits:

1-2 Times Per Week

Has Children?

Want Children?

Undecided

Has Pets?

Birds

Has Car?

Yes

Political Views:

Liberal

Postal Zip Code Area:

95111, CA

About Me:

Hi,
I'm slim to average build, I have all my hair with very little gray. I like country, blue grass, new grass, folk music, and some rock. I've been a Grateful Dead fan since 1973. I currently don't smoke weed, but I don't know if I will in the future or not. For sure if it's a deal breaker I won't. I probably have 2 or 3 drinks a week, but if you are someone who shouldn't be around alcohol, it's not real important to me. I'm somewhat shy until I get to know someone. I have somewhat strong political beliefs, and I'm willing to discuss politics, but since neither of us have any power other than our own votes, I refuse to fight over politics. If your politics are different than mine, that's your right. If we can't discuss politics without fighting about it, we don't have to discuss them. I don't believe I am always right and if you disagree you must be wrong. I'm a bit messy and because I've never had to keep house in the past, I'm not very good at it. Obviously I ramble a bit. I don't really know if this really tells who I am, so we should meet and see what happens. If there is no attraction, then oh well, but we won't get to find out if we don't try. I've been married for forty years and only been single for a couple of years, so this is all new to me. Hopefully I'm more interesting in person than I think I am in writing. I'm currently working but considering retiring.

My Ideal Match:

I'm looking for someone who is kind, fun, comfortable to be with. Sexy is important, but that means different things to different people. If you can, and do cook, that would be a plus, but if not, that's Ok. I'd like a long term intimate relationship, but that can take time to develop. We could meet for drinks, or coffee, or something else you want to do. If I do something that irritates you I want you to tell me rather than holding it in and letting it fester. We are only talking about meeting for the first time, so we can figure this out as it goes, if it goes. If you're just looking for a little fun, that's Ok, but be honest about it. I'm 5'7". If you are taller than I am, that's Ok. I think sweet is very attractive. I don't know if age is important, as long as we can relate, but we can figure that out. I'm not really looking for a one night stand, or short fling, but if that's what you have to offer, I'm Ok with it. If we become partners, we'll be partner with all that entails, but if you ask me to help you financially while we are just getting to know each other that will be a huge red flag. When we have exchanged a few texts but never even met, don't tell me I'm the love of your life and you can't live without me. If things go right I may become that, but it sure should take more than a few texts. I'm not a cynic, but experience on this site has made me want to say that if you are here to make money, I will be a waste of your time. You may be able to hurt me, but it won't profit you. If you aren't willing to post a picture of yourself, the chances of me being interested are greatly reduced. It's not because I want to see if your looks meet my standards, I have no such standards. It's much harder to relate without a picture. Looks probably make some difference, but they make a whole lot less difference than many other traits. I think anything else can be discussed if you are interested.

Interests / Keywords:

romance going to fairs listening to kpfa kkup kpig music system walking in the park having a garden

My Dating Discussions & Site Activity:

13 Forum Posts

Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Dec 11, 2023 2:06 AM GMT

Dating Over 50 stinks.....LOL
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I’m starting over again, but no one seems interested in old fashioned romance and LTC everyone just want to hop into bed, sorry, I’m Christian not happening. Where are all the good guys? Or should I just give up?

While I'm not looking for a long term non sexual relationship, I think someone looking for a long term relationship should be willing to work within the prospective partners comfort zone. While I'm not opposed to sex on the first date, I'm not expecting it either. But then I'm looking for sex within a loving relationship. I think that involves not pushing someone into something before they are comfortable with it.
Thom

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Dec 11, 2023 1:54 AM GMT

How important is your faith in finding that right person?
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Looking to find the right kind of person to spend the second half of my life with, I would love to find someone who I can share my faith walk with as well as all the joys of life and love.
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Faith is VERY important!

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I agree. Faith is important to those who believe. For me...faith is vital!

I'm not a Christian, and would not pretend to a prospective partner that I am. But if my partner was a person of faith II would accommodate them and encourage them to pursue it. If invited by them to a faith event or to meet with friends of hers who shared her faith, I would not embarrass her. She might very well find practicing her faith while in a relationship with me to be easier than practicing her faith while in a relationship with many who claim to share her faith. Being a person of faith doesn't mean the same to everyone who claims to be a "person of faith. Some person's beliefs simply would not allow then to be in a relationship with someone who does not claim to be. That is why I would be very honest from the beginning. Just my two cents.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Dec 9, 2023 8:22 PM GMT

what do you find attractive in women
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I'm sure this question has been asked many times before, but looking back I can't find any answer. So boys, what feature do you find most attractive in a woman?

I can't resist the right smile. Of all the things a woman can do to make herself sexier, I don't think any are as powerful as smiling. When I say I'm looking for an attractive woman, I'm not talking height, weight, size or shape. Attractiveness is so much more than that and sexy is so related.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Dec 5, 2023 2:57 AM GMT

Anyone notice how many east coast and west coast peaple there are on here not too promising on centr
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HIT EAST WEST OR CENTRAL MABEY THEY WILL REALIZE HOW SHITTY THIS SITE REALY IS

I have found very few in Nor Cal, And to me the ones who haven't logged on in over 3 months don't count.

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Thom_w San Jose, California, USA

Dec 5, 2023 2:51 AM GMT

Why are most women on here or other sites always wanting money and gift cards?
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That's exactly what women do to men. We are money to them only. In any format, they are expensive and seldom worth the effort. Their needs are always more important than yours. They guilt trip. Few can actually suck your c*ck very good and are so loose on the other end. Try cumming in goosh. If you don't just give up out of disgust, you have to beat off to c*m. Why bother? Few know how to create mind blowing sex. They just lay there and put forth little effort. They also try to carry on conversations during sex. Marrying most woman for sex is a bad joke. Not one of my female sexual partners have been satisfying because it was all about them. Has this been other guys experiences too?

In real life, when I was dating before getting married, that was not my experience.In real life I believe women come in good and bad, just like men.I have met an awful lot of crazy ones, but I never believed that represented women as a whole. I always figured that was what I attracted, but I have no idea why. Men who think all women are crazy should take a good look at some of the jobs women hold. That all, or most women, are crazy seems very unlikely to me.

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