TheBeeGuy: Truth, Trust, Faith then Love, in that order too!❤️

Gangbang

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I think I want that to happen to me

So stupid, you type in gangbang and you have 18k hits completely ridiculously out of control.Thats whats wrong with this world today. Too much porn on the net and unfulfilled fantasies equal stuff like this.
The truth is none of them are worth their weight when it comes to relationships.
Real men, end up like me, in 2 back to back relations lasting for about 30 years (basically married but not) and end up with repressed fantasies too, but we as real men deal with it as a part of life and have better things to focus on than simple primal urges and drugs to "make us temporarily feel better."
Real men have a moral compass, others..do not..

Thats what makes real men hard, we work, and work our asses off.. and achieve life goals and our dreams, trading life success instead of pleasure and fantasies, our dreams are more important to us.
Thats why you dont fight a working man, we have alot of strength/stress compressed in us we use to achieve our life dreams, until one day some dumba** comes along and presses the right buttons.

WARNING TO WOMEN

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BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR . . .

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of what?

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I wrote this warning after an experience I had on this site. By the way, this was my very first time joining a dating site. A guy started messaging me who seemed very delightful, was nice looking, and my age. We did live in different states, me in Ohio and he in Delaware. We both shared so many interests together. We stayed in touch every day more than once a day and we both ended up developing feelings for one another. We had endless conversations and looked forward to every new conversation with one another. It was wonderful. We shared photos. We were completely comfortable/compatible with each other. This went on for about one month.
Then one day, out of the blue, he said that he needed to tell me something. He said that he had a live-in girlfriend.
They had been together for 2+ years, and stated his situation was not going to change. Told me he joined the dating site looking for a new friend, a pen pal of sorts. But that things started happening so fast between he and I, he couldn't help developing feelings for me. Needless to say, I was hurt, disillusioned, and even cried over him. I am a very sensitive lady, and he knew that. I felt as if my heart was broken. This happened to me fairly recently, so with each new day the memories of him are slowly diminishing. But every now and then a tear or two will stream down my face.
My sincere message to you is ... Guard your heart for it is precious...you only have one.
If something seems too good to be true, it usually is.

Thats simple, it was a scammer, theyll drag it out for a long time and skilled in manipulating people. generally when 2 people click it doesnt take them too long to actually call one another etc. and the relation expands naturally. If they want to type to you for months and summon something weak out of the blue theyre total scammers. Generally men dont play games like that (mature men that Ive experienced anyways,alphas.) Were very direct and to the point, now betas on the otherhand, act more childish and play games, you can usually tell by build and career, just sayin.

Dating over 50-which one is a deal breaker?

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The more shallow qualities you are going for, the more likely it is not going to last for ever!

Age of your mate is irrelevant, if they make you happy and vice versa then youve succeeded in being happy in life, good job. The rest is bullshit social stigma.

Gentlemen, Learn How to Text a Girl You Like..!

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Keep it fresh and flirtatious to make her want you! Women love a man with decisive texting!

Txting is whats destroying our love for one another. Its chain miscommunications, leaving both people with more questions than answers. I typed a dissertation (hey I spelled dissertation correctly no spellcheck yay!) on the entire subject spent about 2 hours on it and for some reason when I went to post it this site made me log back in and I didn't back it up and lost it.

Talk to eachother!, call eachother! We can hear laughs and smiles over the phone, we instantly know your mood, if your happy or sad.
We can hear if your ill, or upset! We can tell ALOT over speech with one another, weve evolved over a million years language to talk to eachother and only recently due to tech were losing not only our communication skills but our values because we can txt whatever we want, whenever we want trying to express our feelings, (and miscommunications of what tone its said in).. over print it holds little or no value, and text struggles for definition.

That's why were having problems as a society in communicating with eachother.
Texting should be for taking small notes or telling someone else at the store we need milk, easy things, not a permanent form of communication. We all agree emojis are childish, so why do we use them? Because were trying to express emotion, and we cant over text its quite simple.
As an experiment I just sent a few members emojis trying to get a response, no words just emojis, not even 1 response, thats my point exactly..(still waiting)

This also includes the damaging "ghosting texts" and message read block "features" on cell phones that leaves everyone confused on what going on with new relations because we can "talk" to eachother instantly in a crude form thats struggling for expression, which gets lost with timing, and verbiage (oops misspelled that one,) often people arent so good at "spilling werds (hehe)" so they do the lazy texting shortcuts which makes it even worse, (thats the only thing I agreed on with this video, the rest of it was pure trash.)
"look nice,brush your teeth, dont wear garbage bags on a date" I think weve known this for centuries no?
Guess what..our youth dont..even at 20 theyre still children these days.

Ghosting people causes damage to self worth and makes the person feel like they've lost value, thats why they get upset, and after that naturally comes anger, its natural to protect your self worth with anger or aggression. I'm sure weve all ran into that ghosting people and vice versa, (well I havent because I dont.. I actually talk to people for a living and I do quite well at it, people ask me where Im from often because I have a vocabulary unlike many, "round these parts yall" here and an unheard of accent I'm told in every state I've ever been to, anywho.)

I think we have enough negative in todays everyday world, people barely hold doors for eachother nowdays, and shoot fingers out the window in traffic, cut eachother off etc. on a daily basis and thats a "normal" day for us..

People have a hard enough time expressing themselves using speech much less emoji's...I strongly believe thats the issue also with todays youth and why the things are the way they are, because we dont communicate with healthy means.
Instead they sit home and play COD everyday talking smack to eachother, and when theyre forced out in the real world they dont know how to talk to eachother normally and have alot of misguided pent up aggression and no healthy vents with eachother for no actual reason, its psychological.
If you look back before the invention of the cell phone, (yes, Im "old") there were less shootings and everything else in this crazy world. BECAUSE WE TALKED TO EACHOTHER AS PEOPLE AND EXPRESSED OURSELVES If we had a problem it was usually solved with fists, right then and there, and when it was over, sometimes we become friends! (Unheard of nowdays, if someone loses a fight they come back with a gun..)

Not only that, when we called eachother on the phone we keep our calls short during the slave work day and it leaves us wanting to talk to eachother more because we havent heard from eachother all day, looking forward to seeing one another with a new healthy energy, and we'd actually MISS EACHOTHER.

Even if you dont know eachother very well, I'm talking about hope.. hope for a better life which we all want and need in this world.
THATS whats destroying our society and values along with our self worth.
People were not built to be alone.. weve always done better with our counterpart in life and we all know it. Throughout history weve needed eachother to survive, in todays society theres so many of us we think that we dont..which drives us further apart as a species exasperating the problem. (bah missed that one)

Expressions like "theres more fish in the sea" means that were learning to play odds instead of developing communication skills as people, (instead of developing into better people that people enjoy being around).. THAT has become acceptable in todays society.

"Find somebody like you" I think weve all heard that, and many of us have that in our hearts and a certain "type" of person were looking for. Instead of trying to be a better person and naturally attracting a better person were looking for people with our same flaws.. (yes we come in flavors.)

Thats alot of the complaints on here " I wanna PNP" "Oh my god! All I get are bad people!" What do you expect with "blowing clouds" and all the other junk, your advertising you have low moral values and are surprised when you get low moral value people. (thats my personal opinion by the way.)

Our daily drive to tank out the 9-5 workday, is LOVE because we have someone at home or someone we care about, to look forward to, THATS the best part of our day, and our lives as a whole. Without it were all missing that part of us and I see it in peoples faces everyday, in the grocery store, everywhere I go, permanent depression.

CALL EACHOTHER, TALK TO EACHOTHER there's a million reasons why, if anybodys interested in WHY Ill spend another 2 hours on the subject, but at this point its 3am and Im outta coffee.

What are some of the signs that a new guy secretly checking you out?

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There is a guy whom I have interest of but he is not very conversational or maybe not even interested at all. I had asked him a simple question after a compliment and I received a one word answer. Since even after that he has not only viewed my story on Facebook couple times but liked the photo on the story and on the page. I know that is not a big deal but since he only replied to my msg with one word I thought he would have unfriended me.

I havent heard the word whom in a longg time lol! love it.
Possibly wrong place wrong time, he might be married or have someone, or just plain shy.
Its really simple, if your not sure BE DIRECT.

"So yeah, if your not doing anything after lunch wanna hang out?"
Honest, straightforward to the point and he knows you have interest in him, if he says no.. you have your answer.
If he makes excuses and says "next time ok?" thats a maybe.. possibly you caught him off guard.
Simple!

What throws me are the tee hee's, giggles and all the other flirting.🤔
Mixed signals only cause trouble and confusion often it causes problems with self worth.

It doesnt end up well. thats why alot of people just "wanna get high or drunk" and throw common sense to the wind..(And they wonder why he/she dont call the next day too!)

I've started dates with the question after 30 minutes in "what are the odds of us having sex tonight?" (Just to see the response, and of course the obvious.)
Its a good question, it shows where you stand, if she says "slim to none," your wasting your time.. and that was a very negative comment, never be negative on a date it kills the date instantly. Shes more than likely there because lack of better things to do ( or you really dont wanna know the reason.)
She could say something in the middle like "maybe" and smile, even if the answer is no, keep the date going and maybe have a good time!

Thats the issue I have with dating, games, Indecisiveness.. and immaturity, at 50!