oicu812b4ic: Balanced man seeking unbalanced female. 8D ( I play)
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This is my last chance to have family/kids only because only of my age, (not my physical ability.)
I'll treat you better than I treat myself (always have I always will.)
I just ask you be honest with yourself and REALLY KNOW what you really want in life.
Together we will make our dreams happen. We cant change our past..but we CAN have a better future.
I'm a Standard + man looking for my Standard + woman for the rest of my days.
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The only thing that has changed is us...we are not as young and stupid, so we avoid all the wierd ones, crazy ones, self centered ones, needy ones, greedy ones, strung out ones etc. Most of us have enough experience to recognize " she ain't it" in about 5 minutes. So that target has become super small now. We know what we want, so even though there are still a mountain of rocks out there, we just keep walking past all the rubble looking for that one we recognize has a gold nugget in there. Keep looking, the nuggets are out there.
BOOM! This mans totally right, as we get older, we recognize flags of all sorts, mental ones, emotional ones and all the above. Like he said it basically takes 5 minutes or a couple of simple questions. Good Job my Bro! =)
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this dating thing over 50 and starting out again kinda stinks.....LOL, anyone else running into this?
It really matters on the person your talking to. Alot of people past 40 or so usually have very poor attitudes about relations, because they haven't grown and learned from their past relations. Part of having relationships, is improving yourself to bee the best you can be, and in a perfect world if that relation fails, you both know why, which means you BOTH need to fix "that."
It should make you both the wiser, more mature and we should learn from our mistakes. Unfortunately alot of people keep stepping in the relation loop, and never learn from their past and are doomed to repeat it. Many people I've met and talked to/dated (all the above) Its very obvious because they have poo pooo attitude about relations and not alot will change that theyre stuck in a negative rutt, and dont see their failures or refuse to accept them is alot of it.
NOBODIES perfect, but in theory with each relation were supposed to learn from each other and become better people overall, unfortunately most dont, they just get worse and become more bitter.
Its about learning from mistakes, being mature, getting over it and moving forward with your life. Theres a many steps it takes to push through all that, once you do it makes your future that much brighter.