WHY SOME MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING? (72)

WHY SOME MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING?

Whether in personal relationships, workplaces, or society at large, women are frequently cast as victims of harsher judgment, enduring blame and consequences disproportionate to their actions. In many cultures, women have been historically expected to manage the home, take care of the emotional needs of the family, and bear responsibility for nurturing everyone around them.



Societal and Cultural Conditioning

This conditioning can lead men to subconsciously (or consciously) expect the women in their lives to be caretakers, emotional managers, and problem solvers. When things go wrong, these ingrained roles can cause men to view women as accountable for anything that disrupts the balance. When women can't meet these unrealistic expectations, men may blame them out of frustration.



Emotional Immaturity and Anger

Some men struggle to express their emotions, confront personal failures and frustration in love, or take accountability for their own actions. Instead of acknowledging their role in a problem, they shift the blame onto the women in their lives.



This could manifest as blaming a wife for issues at home or blaming a girlfriend for personal dissatisfaction. This pattern of avoidance prevents emotional growth and can create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge. Men who haven’t developed healthy coping mechanisms may find it easier to externalize their problems rather than look inward.

Unresolved Childhood Issues

Additionally, a man’s relationship with his mother can shape his interactions with women throughout life. If a man experienced overbearing or emotionally absent parenting, he may carry unresolved feelings of anger, resentment, or frustration. This can manifest in blaming his mother for emotional wounds, which can later be projected onto wives or girlfriends.



Unresolved childhood trauma or attachment issues can create a cycle where men project their frustrations onto the women in their lives, blaming them for any emotional discomfort or unmet needs they experience. When they encounter difficulties—whether it’s failure in their career, struggles with emotions, or relationship challenges—admitting vulnerability might feel like a violation of their role as a "man."

Pressure to Conform to Masculinity

Rather than accept their own limitations, they may deflect blame onto the women in their lives, seeing them as "responsible" for nurturing or supporting them emotionally. Some men may feel the need to assert dominance or control in their relationships, and blaming their partner for issues—whether real or imagined—can be a way to maintain that control.



Power Dynamics in Relationships

This can happen subtly, where a man always seems to find a reason why his wife or girlfriend is at fault, even in situations beyond her control. To maintain a sense of order and security, they may externalize the blame, directing it toward the women in their lives rather than confronting their own shortcomings.



Examples are: Blaming their mother for personal failures, blaming their wife for career struggles, blaming a girlfriend for relationship issues, blaming a partner for parenting responsibilities and blaming a wife for household chaos.

Impacts:

This pattern of avoidance prevents emotional growth and can create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge. Over time, this can lead to emotional burnout for the women involved. When blame is used as a tool to assert power, it leads to emotional abuse, inequality in the relationship, and low self-esteem for the woman involved. When men constantly deflect blame, it prevents them from growing emotionally and spiritually. It also creates a one-sided relationship dynamic where women are left feeling undervalued and unappreciated.

Solution: Building Healthier Relationships

It requires men to take accountability for their emotions, actions, and relationships, and it calls for women to set clear boundaries and avoid taking on the emotional labor of their partners’ unresolved issues. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change.

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Healing these dynamics is possible through open communication, therapy, and a willingness to challenge societal norms about gender and emotional responsibility. Relationships thrive when both partners take equal responsibility for their happiness, growth, and challenges—blame has no place in a healthy partnership. Open conversations about shared responsibility and breaking down traditional roles can help challenge these outdated expectations. Men need to understand that a healthy relationship is built on equality, mutual respect, and shared responsibility. Setting clear boundaries and seeking professional help through couples therapy can be beneficial.



Men must learn to confront their feelings, admit mistakes, and take responsibility for their part in relationship dynamics.

"Physician, heal thyself"

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WHY SOME MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR EVERYTHING?

Whether in personal relationships, workplaces, or society at large, women are frequently cast as victims of harsher judgment, enduring blame and consequences disproportionate to their actions. In many cultures, women have been historically expected to manage the home, take care of the emotional needs of the family, and bear responsibility for nurturing everyone around them.



Societal and Cultural Conditioning

This conditioning can lead men to subconsciously (or consciously) expect the women in their lives to be caretakers, emotional managers, and problem solvers. When things go wrong, these ingrained roles can cause men to view women as accountable for anything that disrupts the balance. When women can't meet these unrealistic expectations, men may blame them out of frustration.



Emotional Immaturity and Anger

Some men struggle to express their emotions, confront personal failures and frustration in love, or take accountability for their own actions. Instead of acknowledging their role in a problem, they shift the blame onto the women in their lives.



This could manifest as blaming a wife for issues at home or blaming a girlfriend for personal dissatisfaction. This pattern of avoidance prevents emotional growth and can create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge. Men who haven’t developed healthy coping mechanisms may find it easier to externalize their problems rather than look inward.

Unresolved Childhood Issues

Additionally, a man’s relationship with his mother can shape his interactions with women throughout life. If a man experienced overbearing or emotionally absent parenting, he may carry unresolved feelings of anger, resentment, or frustration. This can manifest in blaming his mother for emotional wounds, which can later be projected onto wives or girlfriends.



Unresolved childhood trauma or attachment issues can create a cycle where men project their frustrations onto the women in their lives, blaming them for any emotional discomfort or unmet needs they experience. When they encounter difficulties—whether it’s failure in their career, struggles with emotions, or relationship challenges—admitting vulnerability might feel like a violation of their role as a "man."

Pressure to Conform to Masculinity

Rather than accept their own limitations, they may deflect blame onto the women in their lives, seeing them as "responsible" for nurturing or supporting them emotionally. Some men may feel the need to assert dominance or control in their relationships, and blaming their partner for issues—whether real or imagined—can be a way to maintain that control.



Power Dynamics in Relationships

This can happen subtly, where a man always seems to find a reason why his wife or girlfriend is at fault, even in situations beyond her control. To maintain a sense of order and security, they may externalize the blame, directing it toward the women in their lives rather than confronting their own shortcomings.



Examples are: Blaming their mother for personal failures, blaming their wife for career struggles, blaming a girlfriend for relationship issues, blaming a partner for parenting responsibilities and blaming a wife for household chaos.

Impacts:

This pattern of avoidance prevents emotional growth and can create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge. Over time, this can lead to emotional burnout for the women involved. When blame is used as a tool to assert power, it leads to emotional abuse, inequality in the relationship, and low self-esteem for the woman involved. When men constantly deflect blame, it prevents them from growing emotionally and spiritually. It also creates a one-sided relationship dynamic where women are left feeling undervalued and unappreciated.

Solution: Building Healthier Relationships

It requires men to take accountability for their emotions, actions, and relationships, and it calls for women to set clear boundaries and avoid taking on the emotional labor of their partners’ unresolved issues. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change.

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Healing these dynamics is possible through open communication, therapy, and a willingness to challenge societal norms about gender and emotional responsibility. Relationships thrive when both partners take equal responsibility for their happiness, growth, and challenges—blame has no place in a healthy partnership. Open conversations about shared responsibility and breaking down traditional roles can help challenge these outdated expectations. Men need to understand that a healthy relationship is built on equality, mutual respect, and shared responsibility. Setting clear boundaries and seeking professional help through couples therapy can be beneficial.



Men must learn to confront their feelings, admit mistakes, and take responsibility for their part in relationship dynamics.

"Physician, heal thyself"


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Oh yea that’s Mr offgrid nut job himself!

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Oh yea that’s Mr offgrid nut job himself!

Yes, he motivated me to post this!

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Yes, he motivated me to post this!

Do I detect an overreaction instead of actually addressing what I posted?

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Yes, he motivated me to post this!

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Do I detect an overreaction instead of actually addressing what I posted?

All your issues are addressed in the post.

"If you heed these ordinances, by diligently observing them, the Lord your God will maintain with you the covenant loyalty that he swore to your ancestors;"

Deuteronomy 7:12-16






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I didn't bother reading your long winded overreaction to my post because nowhere in my post do I blame everything on women. However I will blame their inability to recognize they are being manipulated by feminism into destroying their best chances at having productive caring relationships and families with men. It's also encouraging a culture of narcissistic women. Women are also the main pushers and followers of feminism but they're not the only one's because a fair amount of men are involved which are mainly those on the left/liberal side of the isle.

The demonrats in government have been pushing hard for feminism among other things because it distracts simple minded people from what's actually important and turns them into useful idiots. They have infiltrated education at all levels and rather than teaching basic things like reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead students are taught that racism, sexism and homophobia are around every corner and that a man can be a woman just because he thinks he is, or that women can do everything a man can do.

Women are being told so many lies and they are lapping them up like a thirsty dog rather than using their brains to actually glean the truth which begs the question as to why? Well it's because of the one fatal weakness women have that lies in their emotions. If you manipulate a woman's emotions in the right or wrong way you can get her to do anything.

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I didn't bother reading your long winded overreaction to my post because nowhere in my post do I blame everything on women. However I will blame their inability to recognize they are being manipulated by feminism into destroying their best chances at having productive caring relationships and families with men. It's also encouraging a culture of narcissistic women. Women are also the main pushers and followers of feminism but they're not the only one's because a fair amount of men are involved which are mainly those on the left/liberal side of the isle.

The demonrats in government have been pushing hard for feminism among other things because it distracts simple minded people from what's actually important and turns them into useful idiots. They have infiltrated education at all levels and rather than teaching basic things like reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead students are taught that racism, sexism and homophobia are around every corner and that a man can be a woman just because he thinks he is, or that women can do everything a man can do.

Women are being told so many lies and they are lapping them up like a thirsty dog rather than using their brains to actually glean the truth which begs the question as to why? Well it's because of the one fatal weakness women have that lies in their emotions. If you manipulate a woman's emotions in the right or wrong way you can get her to do anything.

Why don’t you express your views as an impressive post rather than tailgating me...?

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Why don’t you express your views as an impressive post rather than tailgating me...?

Is this your way of trying to flirt with me?

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Why don’t you express your views as an impressive post rather than tailgating me...?

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Is this your way of trying to flirt with me?

Ha ha..!
With your age and low level of education, you are never a match for young women like me, man!

I have no time to fool around with you. Go somewhere else..!

TRUE some religious text blames the women. (Such as 1 Timothy 2:14 and Ecclesiastes 7:28)
"It was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner."
Other religious text finds fault with everyone.
"No one is righteous. Not anyone."
"All have sinned and fall short."
"All our righteousness is filthy rags."

Now days, it is the opposite. Men are accused. The system profiles men. Women are the victims and men are the aggressors. Men are guilty before being proved innocent.

But women blame men too.
All women's problems are related to men.
Menstruation
Menopause
Mental illness.
It all begins with men.

True.

Both genders can have unrealistic expectations about relationships that can lead to conflicts. Communication styles often differ, leading to misunderstandings. Societal pressures can influence individual choices and compatibility. Personal growth and changes over time can affect compatibility. Emotional availability varies between individuals, impacting relationships. Cultural and familial backgrounds can shape views on marriage.

I would say that a significant cause for incompatibility in relationships is a lack of balance regarding the partners’ expectations of the relationship and each other.

Some women have a fetish for older men. I'm hopeful too.

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Some women have a fetish for older men. I'm hopeful too.

Yes,..! Some older men are affectionate and more sensual though!

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Ha ha..!
With your age and low level of education, you are never a match for young women like me, man!

I have no time to fool around with you. Go somewhere else..!

It's funny that you bring up education because in the early 70s, a grade schooler learned more than most current college educated students. Many in college can't name a country, do a simple math problem or even tell time on a clock, so I'm proud to say I'm not college educated and don't see those being college educated as having a badge of honor. Especially now because it's an expensive and useless piece of paper. The reality is college has been used to indoctrinate those who are weak minded rather than teach them even the basics of education.

I'm 63 now with cancer and on heavy pain medication so I may not be able to write in a polished manner anymore but I still know what's important. In fact I'm even more focused on what's important. Looking death in the face has a tendency to do that.

Going back and forth with you and reading some of your post shows me that you don't see things for what they really are. You see things they way you were told to see them. You were never taught to critically think but were convinced by your teachers to listen to them because they had all the truth and answers. In a nut shell you allowed the education system to open your mind up and pour their propaganda into it and then close it up and turn you loose into society.

RULE NUMBER ONE: TEACHER IS ALWAYS RIGHT.
RULE NUMBER TWO: IF THE TEACHER IS WRONG, REFER BACK TO RULE NUMBER ONE.

My college educated sister didn't marry a man once because he was not college educated.
She became nothing. But she was bothered by his lack of education. He had his own house which he always kept neat with no clutter whatsoever. He was the assistant fire chief in a large city. He would work a week and get a week off. He would work two weeks and get two weeks off. Now my sister is an old maid. Not a wife, not a mother and not employed. But she is educated. She is bothered that her under-educated boyfriend did so well, and she became nothing.

He is retired now with a great pension. But she is nothing.

Peter and John were uneducated ordinary men that hungout with Jesus and were chosen by Jesus. (Acts 4:13)
I guess they got the best education.

Billy Joel sang "If that's what you have in mind. If that's what you're all about. Good luck moving up, because I'm moving out."

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Billy Joel sang "If that's what you have in mind. If that's what you're all about. Good luck moving up, because I'm moving out."

Men don't see woman's accomplishments in the same way as women do. For women it means that a man must have at or better the accomplishments she has. If he doesn't then he's not good enough for her. A wealthy man can marry a woman who works at Burger King and love her for the rest of their lives. Unfortunately higher education in a women often means she will not make a good wife because of the educational indoctrination she has received.

The more a woman experiences usually causes a negative reaction in future relationships. As an example if a wealthy man takes her on a date from then on she thinks she only deserves a wealthy man not realizing that wealthy man only saw her a nooky worthy. Once a woman is on a pedestal she will fight tooth and nail to stay there even at the detriment of a relationship.

And as all men know women are attracted to bad boy's, also known as Chad's and Tyrone's.These types of men bed them and boot them but all men get the blame for the treatment women got from the bad boy's. Women use poor judgement and go out of their way to jump into bed with them but can't seem to get the fact that bad boy's will be bad and if you really want a good relationship then a good boy is what you should seek. But that's not going to happen because they are boring and most women honestly don't know or care to do what's good for them.

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Billy Joel sang "If that's what you have in mind. If that's what you're all about. Good luck moving up, because I'm moving out."

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Men don't see woman's accomplishments in the same way as women do. For women it means that a man must have at or better the accomplishments she has. If he doesn't then he's not good enough for her. A wealthy man can marry a woman who works at Burger King and love her for the rest of their lives. Unfortunately higher education in a women often means she will not make a good wife because of the educational indoctrination she has received.

The more a woman experiences usually causes a negative reaction in future relationships. As an example if a wealthy man takes her on a date from then on she thinks she only deserves a wealthy man not realizing that wealthy man only saw her a nooky worthy. Once a woman is on a pedestal she will fight tooth and nail to stay there even at the detriment of a relationship.

And as all men know women are attracted to bad boy's, also known as Chad's and Tyrone's.These types of men bed them and boot them but all men get the blame for the treatment women got from the bad boy's. Women use poor judgement and go out of their way to jump into bed with them but can't seem to get the fact that bad boy's will be bad and if you really want a good relationship then a good boy is what you should seek. But that's not going to happen because they are boring and most women honestly don't know or care to do what's good for them.

Hello,
Don't append my posts with all your absurd ideas. Post yourself if you have any. Readerrs are looking for my innovaations only.





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Hello,
Don't append my posts with all your absurd ideas. Post yourself if you have any. Readerrs are looking for my innovaations only.

Just because you don't like what I post doesn't mean I will stop posting. This is a after all a forum where we can all share ideas and truth's. If you don't want people to comment then perhaps you should start a blog where you can have your very own echo chamber?

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Hello,
Don't append my posts with all your absurd ideas. Post yourself if you have any. Readerrs are looking for my innovaations only.

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Just because you don't like what I post doesn't mean I will stop posting. This is a after all a forum where we can all share ideas and truth's. If you don't want people to comment then perhaps you should start a blog where you can have your very own echo chamber?

I am not continuing communicating with you any more as I have other things to do. You interfered and sarted bullying me in my post commenting with baseless arguments which have nothing to do with my lifestyle. You had no idea who I was. You lacked contextual connections, and with your outdated information, irrelevant subject matter, personal and subjective bias, and ambiguous words, your arguments were absurd and trash. Instead of acknowledging your problems of personal failures and frustrations in marriage, you shift the blame onto other women in their lives which is outrageously frivolous and harebrained.

I request you to refrain from further interruptions in my posts and thank you.






Edited: Jul 29, 2025 7:32 PM UTC

Mick Jagger sang "GET OFF MY CLOUD"
You might enjoy that song.

Tom T. Hall sang "Old dogs, children and watermelon wine".

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Just because you don't like what I post doesn't mean I will stop posting. This is a after all a forum where we can all share ideas and truth's. If you don't want people to comment then perhaps you should start a blog where you can have your very own echo chamber?

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I am not continuing communicating with any more you as I have other things to do. You interfered and sarted bullying me in my post commenting with baseless arguments which have nothing to do with my lifestyle. You had no idea who I was. You lacked contextual connections, and with your outdated information, irrelevant subject matter, personal and subjective bias, and ambiguous words, your arguments were absurd and trash. Instead of acknowledging your problems of personal failures and frustrations in marriage, you shift the blame onto other women in their lives which is outrageously frivolous and harebrained.

I request you to refrain from further interruptions in my posts and thank you

Wow when a woman accuses a man of bullying when no such thing occurred, then she's lost the moral high ground (if she ever had any). The rest of what you said is just an attempt to save face and try to occupy that elusive moral high ground. I'm surprised you stuck it out as long as you did as most women can't stand it so much when a man disagrees with them their reaction is just to clam up. At least you gave it somewhat of a try so I give you some kudos for that. I would rather have had more well reasoned and thoughtful replies from you but that was your choice.

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Very mature of you. By the way I think Rowan Atkinson is hilarious.

Why do many more women blame men for things men can't control?

Men generally do not expect women to be problem solvers since they are worse at problem solving. If women are more emotional, it would make sense that they should be better at managing, dealing, or knowing emotions.

Unresolved issues? You do realize the women-are-victims world we are living in, right? Now there are some unresolved issues!

Women could not even handle pretending to be a man for a week! Just look at how women came out crying and ending the experiments of dating as a man in youtube videos, getting rejection after rejection if they were even noticed at all!

Unfortunately, women won't accept equality and division of labor. They won't cook, clean, get laundry done, sweep, deal with trash, sew, or earn the money a household needs to survive without resorting to selling themselves in a bad way if you know what I mean.

Admit mistakes? No, that is a bad idea for a man since a woman will hold that against a man forever without ever admitting her own mistakes. Personally, I am more concerned with living a good present and future.

Imagine if women ended up in jail for being unable to pay for children. That would be equality!

Do most women make six-figure salaries? Are they six-feet and five inches tall? Are they in the top five percent looks-wise? Then why should women expect that nowadays?

Men are the first to be fired and the last to be hired for the nice jobs. Hard labor is another story.

Huh? You point out the low self esteem of women, but ignore it or blame something else if men have low self-esteem.

If I so much as got caught messaging other women while dating on a dating site years ago, there would be deep trouble! This was true even if the type and boundaries of the relationships were ill- or undefined. Nowadays, many women who are taken message other men! So much for equality! Such a double-standard!

Shared responsibility should only apply if it is shared, and even then only to the degree each is responsible.

Women are more often or more greatly responsible for household chaos, career struggles, and relationship issues.

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Why do many more women blame men for things men can't control?

Men generally do not expect women to be problem solvers since they are worse at problem solving. If women are more emotional, it would make sense that they should be better at managing, dealing, or knowing emotions.

Unresolved issues? You do realize the women-are-victims world we are living in, right? Now there are some unresolved issues!

Women could not even handle pretending to be a man for a week! Just look at how women came out crying and ending the experiments of dating as a man in youtube videos, getting rejection after rejection if they were even noticed at all!

Unfortunately, women won't accept equality and division of labor. They won't cook, clean, get laundry done, sweep, deal with trash, sew, or earn the money a household needs to survive without resorting to selling themselves in a bad way if you know what I mean.

Admit mistakes? No, that is a bad idea for a man since a woman will hold that against a man forever without ever admitting her own mistakes. Personally, I am more concerned with living a good present and future.

Imagine if women ended up in jail for being unable to pay for children. That would be equality!

Do most women make six-figure salaries? Are they six-feet and five inches tall? Are they in the top five percent looks-wise? Then why should women expect that nowadays?

Men are the first to be fired and the last to be hired for the nice jobs. Hard labor is another story.

Huh? You point out the low self esteem of women, but ignore it or blame something else if men have low self-esteem.

If I so much as got caught messaging other women while dating on a dating site years ago, there would be deep trouble! This was true even if the type and boundaries of the relationships were ill- or undefined. Nowadays, many women who are taken message other men! So much for equality! Such a double-standard!

Shared responsibility should only apply if it is shared, and even then only to the degree each is responsible.

Women are more often or more greatly responsible for household chaos, career struggles, and relationship issues.

I only respond to profles with photos in my posts. In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity.

If you are reluctant to post here, you may send one DM to me,


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In the famous words of Jimmy Buffett , " some people claim there's a woman to blame, but I know it's my own damn fault." Unfortunately most have a tendency to point the finger. Case in point.

I love that song

Adam blamed God,
and Eve blamed the Serpent.
WHO DO YOU BLAME?

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Why do many more women blame men for things men can't control?

Men generally do not expect women to be problem solvers since they are worse at problem solving. If women are more emotional, it would make sense that they should be better at managing, dealing, or knowing emotions.

Unresolved issues? You do realize the women-are-victims world we are living in, right? Now there are some unresolved issues!

Women could not even handle pretending to be a man for a week! Just look at how women came out crying and ending the experiments of dating as a man in youtube videos, getting rejection after rejection if they were even noticed at all!

Unfortunately, women won't accept equality and division of labor. They won't cook, clean, get laundry done, sweep, deal with trash, sew, or earn the money a household needs to survive without resorting to selling themselves in a bad way if you know what I mean.

Admit mistakes? No, that is a bad idea for a man since a woman will hold that against a man forever without ever admitting her own mistakes. Personally, I am more concerned with living a good present and future.

Imagine if women ended up in jail for being unable to pay for children. That would be equality!

Do most women make six-figure salaries? Are they six-feet and five inches tall? Are they in the top five percent looks-wise? Then why should women expect that nowadays?

Men are the first to be fired and the last to be hired for the nice jobs. Hard labor is another story.

Huh? You point out the low self esteem of women, but ignore it or blame something else if men have low self-esteem.

If I so much as got caught messaging other women while dating on a dating site years ago, there would be deep trouble! This was true even if the type and boundaries of the relationships were ill- or undefined. Nowadays, many women who are taken message other men! So much for equality! Such a double-standard!

Shared responsibility should only apply if it is shared, and even then only to the degree each is responsible.

Women are more often or more greatly responsible for household chaos, career struggles, and relationship issues.

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I only respond to profles with photos in my posts. In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity.

If you are reluctant to post here, you may send one DM to me,

In an online world where slanderous or libelous original posts and threads break the code of conduct, clearly posting my own recent photos would be extrememly stupid or a bad idea. As stated before, it doesn't help men much anyway, but harms since men are looked down upon, discriminated against, and have their pictures used against them. I was not asking you for a response. It was an explanation with questions and realizations. You are not for love or equality while you spew misandrist vitriol and are against it in the other direction! Even in your own profile, you admit you don't do video chats or telephone conversations making you inauthentic! I honestly do not know whether to block you, report you, or both.

I don't think it's a gender thing. I think it's a people thing. My ex was a control freak. I couldn't even listen to music. Call my family without her being right behind me. She always had to drive and stuff like that. She really stifled me, i think it's in both genders.You just have to be careful who you end up with

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I don't think it's a gender thing. I think it's a people thing. My ex was a control freak. I couldn't even listen to music. Call my family without her being right behind me. She always had to drive and stuff like that. She really stifled me, i think it's in both genders.You just have to be careful who you end up with

To an extent it is both genders. Men have allowed women to literally get away with murder for to long and we are now reaping the the aftermath of it. Women have been given power that they are incapable of handling without destroying things. Many are actively destroying marriages, family's their children's lives and men's lives along with their own.
Most don't have enough sense to even see what they're doing and instead blame it all on men. Men's only crime is they allowed it to happen under the guise of equal rights. But we don't even have that as it's become unequal rights with women being able to destroy lives without any consequence, or at least that's what they think because women are also hurting themselves without realizing it. But that's what happens when all your decisions are controlled by your emotions.

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Emotionally react much?

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Emotionally react much?

On Jul 26, 2025 11:22 PM UTC, you intervened in my post “Should middle schoolers be dating?” without any of my prompts and started interrogating me as if you were a predestined authority and have known me for a very long time. I never knew who you were and had no business to smack into other’s post without consent.

(Quote “I see a lot of cats in your future because you like most modern women have expectations that will likely keep you single for the rest of your life. You likely misjudge your value in the marriage realm based on the attention you currently receive from men but as you stated above, he has to have several qualifications and if by chance you meet a guy with those qualifications. You did what most modern women do and wasted your best years on education and playing the field. You also think that your job and education makes you more desirable to men but for most men it doesn't, especially the ones you seek.” )

Your language was impolite, annoying and you bluntly attempted to exercise blatant superiority over me without any civility or politeness, which others used to possess when greeting women for the first time. You have no idea who I was and nothing about my lifestyle either. You fabricated foul ideas from my profile, which I have seen you doing for other members too. Your language was absurd; imposing and you never expressed any sorry for taunting and distressing a female member of the forum. Indecency speaks to your mannerism. I don’t care you post any video or not. All my memes and posts throughout are retaliations because of your uninvited offensive intrusion of July26. I don’t misbehave or misconduct with any other members in the forum.

I have been highly successful in this LetsHangOut discussion forum for the last two years posting videos and threads of diverse interests, topics which are fervently viewed by many members who constantly provide me with encouragement and support. Besides I am proud to be a teacher at City Colleges of Chicago, where I have nobly earned the “Employee of the Year” for my excellent instructional technology and research in 2024. I motivate and inspire students to learn the fundamental principles of science through developing my own enthusiasm. I have been highly successful in establishing teacher-student relationships based on open communication and validation of teaching efforts, boosting teacher morale and confidence. Elegance is my dignified grace and kindness and composure are my attributes.

Interrupting others or speaking over them can be a way of asserting control of conversation in online scenarios. This dominant nature is a result of your horrendous upbringing, your personality type or even your low professional environment. It also could be your insecurity, lack of empathy, lack of listening skills, impatience and need for attention. Frequent disruptions can cause frustration, leading to a negative reading experience to viewers. For Your Information, this unruly behavior in online forum often result in a warning from moderators, sometimes leading to suspension of the user's account. This is no street harassment or “cat calling” and if you plant to do them, go back to the place where you came from.

You reveal hatred, prejudice, and discrimination against women and display superiority over other forum members. You perpetuate this discriminatory in your posts asserting that women should be subservient to men. You were defeated by women in your life and your frustration has led to a decline your self-esteem and consequently to false superior perceptions of yourself. You express anger or hostility towards women as a coping mechanism and you are seeking validation from others with your attention-seeking presentations. You are highly egoistic, and boast yourself as if bestowed with superior knowledge compared to other members.

Your responses are absurd. They are simple reflections of your miserable misogynist view and your desperate attempts to gain attraction and sympathy from others. Everyone has the right to act foolish once, but you were violating that privilege. You have no job; your education and technical skills are no match with me. I keep thinking you can’t get any dumber and you keep proving me wrong. I’m both surprised and disappointed that you’ve made it this far. Unfortunately, you can’t edit your nasty attitude. You are arrogant. You dismiss others' opinions about women without consideration or respect. You use condescending language or tone when responding to women topics. You frequently boast about personal knowledge or achievements. You ignore or belittling questions from less experienced participants who are fond of women. You refuse to acknowledge mistakes or differ viewpoints. You dominate conversations and not allow others to contribute. You are a subversive shame to other decent men on this site. It is high time you wind up your profile and go home!

In all your posts, you only bring your ugly view of antifeminism and have no idea how to grasp or comprehend anything beyond them. Scholarly subjects such as Astrobiology, Robotic Missions and Human Spaceflight are alien to you. You define them as “bullshits” because they are simply beyond your comprehension. This derogatory approach has paved the way for your decline. You fail to admit this ignorance and you have no intellectual curiosity to learn as well. It is well known to everybody that to enhance the quality of life and address global challenges, science helps humanity in the current century.

All your 10 years research on male/female dynamics is futile because your low-level of education doesn’t allow you to provide ample intellectual capacity to formulate any suggestive, creative human relation theories. With only your high-school education, your cerebral cortex cannot evolve any further and whatever you perceive are dull concepts. Your knowledge about the current digital world and applications are primitive. You have a hard time and you filter the world through your intuition and have a difficult time intellectualizing your own feelings.

You are trying to portrait men like you as heroes or leaders, shaping perceptions of superiority. Societal expectations often promote male dominance in various roles. Men like you often hold more leadership positions reinforcing power structures. Men like you may use assertive language to establish authority in conversations to perpetuate male dominance in online dating platforms. Men like you create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge, and shift the blame onto them in their lives. Men like you perpetuate gender inequality, limiting women's opportunities in various spheres and reinforces harmful stereotypes that devalue women's contributions and capabilities. Men like you are notoriously miserable!

In spite of the failure in your life, have you ever thought of improvising yourself? Try to be an empath yourself. Acknowledge your actions and their impact on others. Offer a sincere apology to women affected. Take responsibility without making excuses. Reflect on what led to your actions and learn from them. Make amends where possible to repair relationships. Commit to changing your behavior in the future. Empaths are often compassionate and understanding, fostering strong connections with others.

My personal life is none of anyone else’s business and telling others about things I get up to make me hard to achieve them! I will speak out against gender stereotypes and promote positive representations of women in media and society. I will vigorously oppose anyone who blatantly blame women of societal standards, cause harassment and bias in professional settings, hindering career advancement and limiting women's opportunities in various spheres of this globe at any time.

Shame on you..!




Edited: Aug 17, 2025 3:59 AM UTC

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Emotionally react much?

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On Jul 26, 2025 11:22 PM UTC, you intervened in my post “Should middle schoolers be dating?” without any of my prompts and started interrogating me as if you were a predestined authority and have known me for a very long time. I never knew who you were and had no business to smack into other’s post without consent.

(Quote “I see a lot of cats in your future because you like most modern women have expectations that will likely keep you single for the rest of your life. You likely misjudge your value in the marriage realm based on the attention you currently receive from men but as you stated above, he has to have several qualifications and if by chance you meet a guy with those qualifications. You did what most modern women do and wasted your best years on education and playing the field. You also think that your job and education makes you more desirable to men but for most men it doesn't, especially the ones you seek.” )

Your language was impolite, annoying and you bluntly attempted to exercise blatant superiority over me without any civility or politeness, which others used to possess when greeting women for the first time. You have no idea who I was and nothing about my lifestyle either. You fabricated foul ideas from my profile, which I have seen you doing for other members too. Your language was absurd; imposing and you never expressed any sorry for taunting and distressing a female member of the forum. Indecency speaks to your mannerism. I don’t care you post any video or not. All my memes and posts throughout are retaliations because of your uninvited offensive intrusion of July26. I don’t misbehave or misconduct with any other members in the forum.

I have been highly successful in this LetsHangOut discussion forum for the last two years posting videos and threads of diverse interests, topics which are fervently viewed by many members who constantly provide me with encouragement and support. Besides I am proud to be a teacher at City Colleges of Chicago, where I have nobly earned the “Employee of the Year” for my excellent instructional technology and research in 2024. I motivate and inspire students to learn the fundamental principles of science through developing my own enthusiasm. I have been highly successful in establishing teacher-student relationships based on open communication and validation of teaching efforts, boosting teacher morale and confidence. Elegance is my dignified grace and kindness, and composure are my attributes.

Interrupting others or speaking over them can be a way of asserting control of conversation in online scenarios. This dominant nature is a result of your horrendous upbringing, your personality type or even your low professional environment. It also could be your insecurity, lack of empathy, lack of listening skills, impatience and need for attention. Frequent disruptions can cause frustration, leading to a negative reading experience to viewers. For Your Information, this unruly behavior in online forum often result in a warning from moderators, sometimes leading to suspension of the user's account. This is no street harassment or “cat calling” and if you plant to do them, go back to the place where you came from.

You reveal hatred, prejudice, and discrimination against women and display superiority over other forum members. You perpetuate this discriminatory in your posts asserting that women should be subservient to men. You were defeated by women in your life and your frustration has led to a decline your self-esteem and consequently to false superior perceptions of yourself. You express anger or hostility towards women as a coping mechanism and you are seeking validation from others with your attention-seeking presentations. You are highly egoistic, and boast yourself as if bestowed with superior knowledge compared to other members.

Your responses are absurd. They are simple reflections of your miserable misogynist view and your desperate attempts to gain attraction and sympathy from others. Everyone has the right to act foolish once, but you were violating that privilege. You have no job; your education and technical skills are no match with me. I keep thinking you can’t get any dumber and you keep proving me wrong. I’m both surprised and disappointed that you’ve made it this far. Unfortunately, you can’t edit your nasty attitude. You are arrogant. You dismiss others' opinions about women without consideration or respect. You use condescending language or tone when responding to women topics. You frequently boast about personal knowledge or achievements. You ignore or belittling questions from less experienced participants who are fond of women. You refuse to acknowledge mistakes or differ viewpoints. You dominate conversations and not allow others to contribute. You are a subversive shame to other decent men on this site. It is high time you wind up your profile and go home!

In all your posts, you only bring your ugly view of antifeminism and have no idea how to grasp or comprehend anything beyond them. Scholarly subjects such as Astrobiology, Robotic Missions and Human Spaceflight are alien to you. You define them as “bullshits” because they are simply beyond your comprehension. This derogatory approach has paved the way for your decline. You fail to admit this ignorance and you have no intellectual curiosity to learn as well. It is well known to everybody that to enhance the quality of life and address global challenges, science helps humanity in the current century.

All your 10 years research on male/female dynamics is futile because your low-level of education doesn’t allow you to provide ample intellectual capacity to formulate any suggestive, creative human relation theories. With only your high-school education, your cerebral cortex cannot evolve any further and whatever you perceive are dull concepts. Your knowledge about the current digital world and applications are primitive. You have a hard time and you filter the world through your intuition and have a difficult time intellectualizing your own feelings.

You are trying to portrait men like you as heroes or leaders, shaping perceptions of superiority. Societal expectations often promote male dominance in various roles. Men like you often hold more leadership positions reinforcing power structures. Men like you may use assertive language to establish authority in conversations to perpetuate male dominance in online dating platforms. Men like you create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge, and shift the blame onto them in their lives. Men like you perpetuate gender inequality, limiting women's opportunities in various spheres and reinforces harmful stereotypes that devalue women's contributions and capabilities. Men like you are notoriously miserable!

In spite of the failure in your life, have you ever thought of improvising yourself? Try to be an empath yourself. Acknowledge your actions and their impact on others. Offer a sincere apology to women affected. Take responsibility without making excuses. Reflect on what led to your actions and learn from them. Make amends where possible to repair relationships. Commit to changing your behavior in the future. Empaths are often compassionate and understanding, fostering strong connections with others.

My personal life is none of anyone else’s business and telling others about things I get up to make me hard to achieve them! I will speak out against gender stereotypes and promote positive representations of women in media and society. I will vigorously oppose anyone who blatantly blame women of societal standards, cause harassment and bias in professional settings, hindering career advancement and limiting women's opportunities in various spheres of this globe at any time.

Shame on you..!

I'll get back to this long winded, somewhat inaccurate, oddly written and whatever else it is when I have a little more time.

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Emotionally react much?

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On Jul 26, 2025 11:22 PM UTC, you intervened in my post “Should middle schoolers be dating?” without any of my prompts and started interrogating me as if you were a predestined authority and have known me for a very long time. I never knew who you were and had no business to smack into other’s post without consent.

(Quote “I see a lot of cats in your future because you like most modern women have expectations that will likely keep you single for the rest of your life. You likely misjudge your value in the marriage realm based on the attention you currently receive from men but as you stated above, he has to have several qualifications and if by chance you meet a guy with those qualifications. You did what most modern women do and wasted your best years on education and playing the field. You also think that your job and education makes you more desirable to men but for most men it doesn't, especially the ones you seek.” )

Your language was impolite, annoying and you bluntly attempted to exercise blatant superiority over me without any civility or politeness, which others used to possess when greeting women for the first time. You have no idea who I was and nothing about my lifestyle either. You fabricated foul ideas from my profile, which I have seen you doing for other members too. Your language was absurd; imposing and you never expressed any sorry for taunting and distressing a female member of the forum. Indecency speaks to your mannerism. I don’t care you post any video or not. All my memes and posts throughout are retaliations because of your uninvited offensive intrusion of July26. I don’t misbehave or misconduct with any other members in the forum.

I have been highly successful in this LetsHangOut discussion forum for the last two years posting videos and threads of diverse interests, topics which are fervently viewed by many members who constantly provide me with encouragement and support. Besides I am proud to be a teacher at City Colleges of Chicago, where I have nobly earned the “Employee of the Year” for my excellent instructional technology and research in 2024. I motivate and inspire students to learn the fundamental principles of science through developing my own enthusiasm. I have been highly successful in establishing teacher-student relationships based on open communication and validation of teaching efforts, boosting teacher morale and confidence. Elegance is my dignified grace and kindness and composure are my attributes.

Interrupting others or speaking over them can be a way of asserting control of conversation in online scenarios. This dominant nature is a result of your horrendous upbringing, your personality type or even your low professional environment. It also could be your insecurity, lack of empathy, lack of listening skills, impatience and need for attention. Frequent disruptions can cause frustration, leading to a negative reading experience to viewers. For Your Information, this unruly behavior in online forum often results in a warning from moderators, sometimes leading to suspension of the user's account. This is no street harassment or “cat calling” and if you plant to do them, go back to the place where you came from.

You reveal hatred, prejudice, and discrimination against women and display superiority over other forum members. You perpetuate this discriminatory in your posts asserting that women should be subservient to men. You were defeated by women in your life and your frustration has led to a decline in your self-esteem and consequently to false superior perceptions of yourself. You express anger or hostility towards women as a coping mechanism and you are seeking validation from others with your attention-seeking presentations. You are highly egoistic, and boast yourself as if bestowed with superior knowledge compared to other members.

Your responses are absurd. They are simple reflections of your miserable misogynist view and your desperate attempts to gain attraction and sympathy from others. Everyone has the right to act foolish once, but you were violating that privilege. You have no job; your education and technical skills are no match with me. I keep thinking you can’t get any dumber and you keep proving me wrong. I’m both surprised and disappointed that you’ve made it this far. Unfortunately, you can’t edit your nasty attitude. You are arrogant. You dismiss others' opinions about women without consideration or respect. You use condescending language or tone when responding to women topics. You frequently boast about personal knowledge or achievements. You talk about other men in a highly authoritative tone and you project all them possessing your own filthy prejudice. You ignore or belittling questions from less experienced participants who are admirers of gracious women. You refuse to acknowledge mistakes or differ viewpoints. You dominate conversations and not allow others to contribute. You are a subversive shame to other decent men on this site. It is high time you wind up your profile and go home!

In all your posts, you only bring your ugly view of antifeminism and have no idea how to grasp or comprehend anything beyond them. Scholarly subjects such as Astrobiology, Robotic Missions and Human Spaceflight are alien to you. You define them as “bullshits” because they are simply beyond your comprehension. This derogatory approach has paved the way for your decline. You fail to admit this ignorance and you have no intellectual curiosity to learn them as well. It is well known to everybody that to enhance the quality of life and address global challenges, science helps humanity in the current century.

All your 10 years research on male/female dynamics is futile because your low-level of education doesn’t allow you to provide ample intellectual capacity to formulate any suggestive, creative human relation theories. With only your high-school education, your cerebral cortex cannot evolve any further and whatever you perceive are dull concepts. Your knowledge about the current digital world and applications are primitive. You have a hard time and you filter the world through your intuition and have a difficult time intellectualizing your own feelings.

You are trying to portrait men like you as heroes or leaders, shaping perceptions of superiority. Societal expectations often promote male dominance in various roles. Men like you often hold more leadership positions reinforcing power structures. Men like you may use assertive language to establish authority in conversations to perpetuate male dominance in online dating platforms. Men like you create a toxic environment in relationships where women are held responsible for every conflict or challenge, and shift the blame onto them in their lives. Men like you perpetuate gender inequality, limiting women's opportunities in various spheres and reinforces harmful stereotypes that devalue women's contributions and capabilities. Men like you are notoriously miserable!

In spite of the failure in your life, have you ever thought of improvising yourself? Try to be an empath yourself. Acknowledge your actions and their impact on others. Offer a sincere apology to women affected. Take responsibility without making excuses. Reflect on what led to your actions and learn from them. Make amends where possible to repair relationships. Commit to changing your behavior in the future. Empaths are often compassionate and understanding, fostering strong connections with others.

My personal life is none of anyone else’s business and telling others about things I get up to make me hard to achieve them! I will speak out against gender stereotypes and promote positive representations of women in media and society. I will vigorously oppose anyone who blatantly blame women of societal standards, cause harassment and bias in professional settings, hindering career advancement and limiting women's opportunities in various spheres of this globe at any time.

Shame on you..!

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I'll get back to this long winded, somewhat inaccurate, oddly written and whatever else it is when I have a little more time.

Huh..?
Admit that you have no skill to instantly respond to an woman except to spill foul language! I along with other readers will ignore your manufactured reply!





Edited: Aug 17, 2025 4:30 AM UTC

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I'll get back to this long winded, somewhat inaccurate, oddly written and whatever else it is when I have a little more time.

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Huh..?
Admit that you have no skill to instantly respond to an woman except to spill foul language! I along with other readers will ignore your manufactured reply!

It probably took you several day's to put together that load half truths and no truths and you want to try and "manufacture" a put down because I don't have time to write a response to you right this second. I did plan on going through many of the points you had and address them. I won't bother now. I really don't see the need since you look bad enough already. Or haven't you noticed that you're not so popular with some of the men folk (or anyone for that matter).
You really tooted your own horn and just because you post a lot of crap you find on the internet doesn't make you popular. Heck a trained monkey can do that. For someone who claims she's so highly regarded in the field of education you sure spend an awful lot of time on a website that most people have never even heard of.

I don't think that you two are suitable.
BUT HEY! WHO IS?
Envision yourselves together alone on a remote island. The only survivors from a boat. Now begin your lives together.

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I don't think that you two are suitable.
BUT HEY! WHO IS?
Envision yourselves together alone on a remote island. The only survivors from a boat. Now begin your lives together.

I would moved to the other side of the island and make fire to keep warm, find drinkable water, catch fish and game to eat while she stumbled around on her side starving and crying because she's incapable of surviving without her phone, makeup & curling iron. She would then come to me begging for food & water, which I would give. But first she would have to earn it by cleaning and cooking the fish and game, wash the dishes, keep the hut clean. make up the hammock and service my other needs as they arise. And if she gives me any guff she would be given a time out back on her side of the Island until she got her mind right.

For those who might not understand some of my references. The OP has selectively edited out some of her content particularly where she boasted about how highly educated she is and that she's also highly regarded by her peers. She also wrote the she's been posting here for two years and has a large following. There was more boasting but I must confess that I don't remember it all or the exact words she used.

I'm guessing after she posted it she realized that she had taken it a bit to far and most people would have seen it the same way I saw it which was an extreme stretching of the truth and so she removed it. I give her kudos for knowing she crossed the line in those instances. However she has left in a lot of other nonsense about me that in some cases is mildly stretching the truth and in others not even close to the truth. The problem with not telling the truth is it leads to more lies. It also calls into question the truthfulness of her past post which have at times been similar in truth stretching nature.

People are free to agree or disagree with anyone's post. But one thing I never do is purposely lie. That's not to say I haven't said some things that may be factually wrong because we all make mistakes. And if I did or do in the future, it has and never will be on purpose. Except in the case of a joke, then all bets are off.

Offretard’s goal is to make you look bad. He just said it “you look bad enough already”. He is a small p*nis one ball excuse of a male. He obviously got pushed away from mama,s tit too soon and has this on going hate for women. He must be pretty small as he has to cut everyone down trying to feel big. What a total loser!

Actually, Offgrid loved his wife until she left him.
There has got to be some offgrid babes that will want him.
Some do have a thing for being offgrid. Some like the camping life.

We all probably got off of our mothers' nip too soon.

Maybe you can send a few women Offgrid's way