why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? (40)

why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

Could be they are wanting you to climax a few times first. Or they have already been with someone hours prior to you and just can't produce anything. Or medications could be another issue. Why not offer them sex for 5 or 10 minutes. Give them a time clock. Even an older guy like me could pop my load in that time frame with a sexy looking lady like you. .

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Could be they are wanting you to climax a few times first. Or they have already been with someone hours prior to you and just can't produce anything. Or medications could be another issue. Why not offer them sex for 5 or 10 minutes. Give them a time clock. Even an older guy like me could pop my load in that time frame with a sexy looking lady like you. .

nice. thats good information. I hope I could make you c*m :)

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

At least for me I always want to but when on one, it makes it quite difficult, and it ain't coming quick.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

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At least for me I always want to but when on one, it makes it quite difficult, and it ain't coming quick.

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The older we get the more time that is needed to reload the gun.

I want to see your pleasure it gets me off and the longer I hold back the better it feels and the bigger I get

it builds momentum in the mind, it is the power of man to hold his climax to achieve as many climaxes as a woman can have. Ladies at your climaxally drive us men in bed and if you're not getting that your man is not driven by you but byTHE nut ! Women that are doesn't want long sex you're chasing after a man that wants nothing but a nut. But you women are looking for passion we are called the hourly men we're worried about you climaxes more than anything and give this passion beyond your imagination.

I feel that after taking off our clothes and everything else I wanna go longer mostly because I love having a naked woman in my arms plus I wanna make sure you’re cumming too

Well this is just me speaking when my d*ck is in some hot pu**y or a**hole or mouth the feeling is so amazing an sexy I want it to last as long as the female I'm fucking creams on my d*ck so we both c*m if so happens she cums an I don't then we continue to f*ck until she makes me c*m but if your looking for someone to make c*m hit me up id definitely let you put your c*m making skills to use

If he can come close to cumming and is able to hold off it makes it more intense
The more he can hold it
It keeps building up

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming?

You answered the question yourself. If we don't 'last long enough', we feel as though we haven't done the job and you'll go off somewhere else. You have to remember that women are hypergamous and are always looking for the next best thing. Making a girl squirt is a possible solution; especially if done before penetration.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

A little communication wouldn't hurt anything.

because it feels so good.what can you say.or you can talk about and try again tomorrow.its not right to ignore the person you are hammering.

I tend to c*m soon, when totally turned on. However, I enjoy making it a love session, with other times throughout the evening.

I naturally need a long time for loving. Women had told me a minute is too quick for a man to finish. Many women had exclaimed: I love you! I'm cumming, I never met a man like you and more.
My focus is on HER pleasure. The longer I take the more they enjoy....
Some women can take a short time, under twenty minutes is sufficient for them.
Every person is different

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

I can’t speak for anyone else but I know if she edges me to right before I c*m then stops then continuously doing this for a while then when I do finally c*m releasing all that built up tension its indescribable

You opened up the floodgates for this question…so to speak. It’s better to prolong the the time to c*m…I want to make sure my woman reaches her climax so I try to prolong the time it takes. makes it more interesting

That sounds like they're edging - or possibly under the influence/hungover.
Edging has two results -a ruined o*gasm, or the climax goes Atomic. More time doing it = more shuddering, golden rain, earth shaking.
Human orgasms have a complex biological timing. Lot going on there. If that timing if thrown off - dude shoots, no explosion of pleasure. Some Dommes have learned how to do that to their subs.

I have no problem cumming. I am not a robot and it is part of the shared experience. That said a good cuddle or foreplay to get going again adds to the length of time. Also when you can make it a few times of timing it together it's on the next level

I have no problem cumming. I am not a robot and it is part of the shared experience. That said a good cuddle or foreplay to get going again adds to the length of time. Also when you can make it a few times of timing it together it's on the next level

There are two common reasons either I don't c*m, or she doesn't climax. The first is mind-altering, such as too much alcohol, street drugs, etc. The second reason has to do with the most significant sex organ any of us has...the brain. When you have healthy sex, it stops (and begins) at a natural point. However, many of us use sex for a variety of reasons, including relaxation and stimulation. If either party is preoccupied or unable to reach that h*rny brain state of stimulation because of external or internal factors (worried about work or don't find the other party stimulating), we could go on and on in the hopes of reaching a plateau. So, I am led to conclude if one goes on and on and doesn't c*m, it's because of a lack of turn-on for the two reasons mentioned. Remember that several common street drugs can provide erotic stimulation, but they cannot change the dominant emotional state of the man or woman who is distracted. Please consider that this is my reasoned opinion as a male and not necessarily universal or applies to everyone.

Very simple answer. Not because I'm so enriched with sex enhancing drugs but I found out, it the journey not the destination.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

i have had several females tell me they dont like the all nighters. Here's my goal with a woman...get her to o*gasm orally, then once or twice after that. i then can let loose and c@m where you like.

Well if you consider the fact that a woman can walk into a bar and advertise that she wants to engage in sex and 99.9 % will have her way. Us men, if following the same criteria, we get hit with cue balls. So we can't afford to do that in such short intervals (we must heal) therefore, not having the opportunity as frequently or so desired we try to make it last as long as we possibly can. Also, there's nothing more embarrassing than engaging in sex at 11:59 and upon completion you look up just in time to see the clock change to 12:00!

As for the posts; yes, medication, previous sexual encounter, possibly an std or, as for me, I would wait to c*m because I loved having sex with my ex. She was an amazing fit and I did not want it to stop.having her o*gasm, her legs would shake for minutes.
Then there is the psychological. Possibly he is a chronic masturbator/edging and due to this, he can only c*m in a certain position or the porn he watches. I am sure there are more reasons not yet posted.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

It could be because it takes two..I know that listening to you moan really turns me on, and makes it happen pretty quick. But if you lay there and go "fine" have it your way and your irritated, this is gonna take awhile. And after awhile Im not gonna be nice with the pokey and get what I want, cause your not getting what you want..I'll be ignoring what you want, which causes emotional issues really, and creates problems with the relationship...
Ask me how do I know?

Depends on the workday, the energy really, when were younger we didnt work as hard (and made wayyy less money) so its "better" as we got older, my opinion ( that and you know your woman better, its not just a drunken fling) what is more important?
A place to live comfortably and sex that always didnt end with a bang but being generally happy in life having everything you need and being content with life?
Or live under a tree with no food, sleeping in the bushes and have wild nature sex with leaves in your hair, (which sounds fun but not practical) your choice.

Ever think maybe, that we enjoy making love to you, and its not all about the finish?
You know the Chinese really aren't into the finish, its about gasms for hours and on the finish, the females ..not happy we'll put it that way.

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The older we get the more time that is needed to reload the gun.

I beg to differ! Then again.. Im told Im not normal..anyways.

I can only share my experience after being married (God rest her soul) to the same woman over 20 years.

The more often we had sex the longer I lasted.
She preferred less often so the "ROCKET WOULD BLAST OFF" quicker.

I’d like to comment on a reply which so was surprised to read only once and that took some time going through all the other replies to eventually read this one - COMMUNICATION WOULDNT HURT! Are we still dating, in love, fucking and in a relationship of any kind and still not using this means of relationship building? Well f*ck me and suck me off then. If this is the case then you’re all doomed. Lol. Now, back to the question or query on, why do guys always go for hours without cumming. First of all there are too many answers or possibilities to this very important and good question. So any answer or several May or may not apply to the one(s) asking this question. It depends and will vary from guy to guy and intimate encounter to the next intimate encounter. 1. Some guys can’t c*m and if you haven’t figured out that your man may be one of these guys, you’re not an attentive lover. 2. Most guys don’t usually want any good time to end. So once we c*m, the fun is over so to speak. If your man wants to f*ck for hours, that’s likely a compliment and a selfish desire all in one. It’s unfortunate that most girl talk involves untrue desires and needs. They say one thing and we’ll, mean an entirely different thing all together. Men are simple. For most men, we see tits and a** and we are hard and want to bang them for as long as we can. If we acted like deer or rabbits or animals by way of a - wam bam thank you mam! Then we’d be laughed at and gossiped about. If we want to stay inside of you for hours (hopefully fulfilling your desires and euphoria) then we are pointed at and questioned!? If we love or don’t like o*al, we’re different or whatever. There is no real promise in pleasing a women or partner unless you’re both open and honest and COMMUNICATE. If I’ll get to that but first, if you smell perfume which isn’t yours or lipstick shades that you don’t wear or panties that you’d never be caught dead in and your man can f*ck for hours but can’t c*m!? Do the math. This next explanation is highly probable- your man may require more vigorous and consistent friction to stimulate him and cause him to c*m. He may not be as sensitive in that area and may need some extra heat friction or contact to have him so turned on by touch that he’ll blow his load every time. Also, it may be a mental thing for him and one he will only know usually. Some don’t understand themselves! But if the question, why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming is a genuine one you’d really like the answer to. Then I suggest finding a way to ask him, your man and COMMUNICATE with each other. This may come as a complete shock when I say this but don’t expect the truth on your first attempt in inquiring either. Let’s face it ladies. You’ve faked several organisms throughout your experiences and have kept it hush hush / or not, up until now. Be mindful that some of you women may come to find out the answer is not at all what you had expected and it may or may not please you to learn what the answer is. You’ll get an answer based on what your man understands of you. So let’s and in some cases, be card what we wish for or demand to know. I can only speak for myself and not for others when I say that, I prefer but am not always this way. Harder more into it and on the verge of cumming but still hold off on doing so when vigorously descending my girls mouth/throat. Hard as the most indestructible object or matter known to man. It’s not just the confined space either. It’s the sounds, position as I prefer a few over any and it’s the power and control that I’ve got when penetrating her throat. But make no mistake about it. I’ll never take more than I give and I’ll endure whatever I must to achieve or assist in my girls need to achieve what she craves and enjoys just as much or more as I can’t imagine my fetish is one which isn’t hard to accomplish accommodate .|. Or sustain under those conditions. Lol. It’s the same as when I’m my hardest when I know that what im doing and making my girl feel when penetrating her love tunnel (pu**y) and I know she’s close to cumming again. This tho is usually more mental for me as I can control when she will and knowing what else she craves, can put my thumb on it and have her explode in a way that the grip of her around my c*ck is too much for even me to hold off. The best part to this situation is that when she cums and contracts which triggers my gunshot. My gunshots provide more for her and sets her off yet again and may or may not be more powerful than the one just prior but definitely gets her off and adds to the connection between us. And if you’d like to know, every attempt isn’t always successful and for too many reasons to mention considering the diversity between everyone and their own experiences and comfort level. Let me ask you this ladies. Do you usually want anything which you’re experiencing and which is profound and euphoric to end quickly? It’s not a be all and end all to the original question but let me ask this.why do women fake orgasmic pleasure? Think of the opposite now and it might help provide you with some basis to an accurate reply. Best of luck buttercup. why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

A little communication wouldn't hurt anything.

Feel free to contact me for mature cordial and respectful communication at [removed]. I don’t judge anyone so if your straight gay bi Polly or any other way that you feel comfortable being yourself, feel free to drop a line. Thanks

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

A little communication wouldn't hurt anything.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

I’m happy you are active and have this problem. I’m one of those that c*m very quickly but the good thing is if partner is turning me on I c*m multiple times. You sound like someone I have been look for.

Mostly their ego. They think the longer they last the manlier they are. I am one of the few that know better. The sexier and more more inviting a girl is the faster I c*m! If I don’t c*m for you for a long time that is a bad thing not a good thing.

Because it feels good and want it to last as long as possible because once we c*m usually its game over.

Probably because they're j****** o** all day at work.Or have a side piece.And they come home and I get fucked for hours and give you a load.
That's just me on

The main reason for that is that most men are want to please their mate thoroughly, multiple orgasms, in multiple ways. And once she's been serviced correctly then it's our turn to get off.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

My answer to this is hoping to find a multiorgasmic woman. Yes, it took a long time to learn to control the urge to finish quickly, but when I'm with a woman that can "go over the edge" while I'm pounding and then build up the tension to do it again while I pound away. I don't know why, but that is very satisfying. Eventually, I let myself go over the edge or if I wear myself out first. I like a little rest and then a chance to go at it again, but this time for the purpose of "exploding" ... :-D

Nobody can go for hours without cumming. All talk. It’s an ego thing. Guys talk big. They think it makes them sound tough. Especially ones with beards. They got kicked off of mamas titty too soon and in make me feel big mode.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

because they dont know you and theyre not spiritually into you, your both only there for sex. Sex is a vent for negative emotions if you dont know the person, looking for the obvious release..
Thats why they struggle with finish.🤔
Thats why I havent had sex in two years, I cant disconnect the emotion.

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why do guys always want to go for hours without cumming? I understand wanting sex to last and for the stigma of not wanting to c*m too quick, but maybe Im weird but I want guys to c*m. It s my job (so to speak) to make a guy explode. . When guys dont want to it makes me feel Im not doing my job. What say you?

For me it’s because I edge and the build up creates the most intense o*gasm possible. But it’s also tough for ladies who like the sensation of ejaculation. So ladies like that multiple times
It’s kinda a tough one