Should middle schoolers be dating? (98)

Many are like "Looking" and do not post pictures. Many think like him, and don't want to post a picture. For mere writing, it does not matter. Though it does seem a waste of words to write people that do not post a picture or send a picture. I believe there are misuses of all things posted including photographs. Some copy and paste photographs/ images and steal picture identity to create other accounts, and so impersonate the pictured person. It is a gamble we take. Half the women on this site do not post a picture of themselves and men outnumber women 10 to 1. But you have been generous with photos, and I understand your wanting photos. I like women who are generous with photos. But many are not. You interest many men with your many photos. The women who post no photos interest no men. For lack of women here, a few men may venture to write women that post no photo. But they may quickly lose interest when seeing the portions of the person. People like privacy. But you get no privacy when posting on the net. All becomes a free gift to anyone and everyone. Voluntarily given. It does increase one's odds to post a photo and it exposes one further. There is no right or wrong on the matter. Some post nothing, not even a photo. Funny about that. I usually skip writing people who have no content in their profile.

Among the many elements of online profiles, a 'face pic' stands out as a crucial representation of oneself. This introductory image is more than just an aesthetic presentation; it's a statement of trust, transparency, and genuineness in the world of digital dating. While personal insecurities or past traumas can influence someone's decision to remain anonymous online, it's unsettling, some users might hide their face to deceive others, either to catfish or pursue malicious intents.

While I approach those with such profiles with kindness and understanding, building self-worth and confidence is crucial not just for online dating but for overall well-being.

In my communications, I like to set boundaries that clearly define what I am comfortable with to avoid misunderstandings and communicate openly with other people to build trust and respect with honesty, integrity, values, and principles.

And you do well at that. You are generous with the photos. Many visit your profile and see that you are generous with the photos and wish more women like you were here on this site as most women keep us guessing as to how they look like. I trust your posts and I trust your profile. Not everyone feels the same as you. Not everyone trusts. Or they trust that personal stuff may be used. Yes, not all those who hide their face or true face photo is a good person that fears being mis-used. There are plenty of opportunists. There are some cheaters. But I trust, Rosilove, that you are real. You are genuine. You are authentic. And this site would be much better with a thousand women like you posting generously their photos.

Yes, it seems that those who do not post photos are trying to protect themselves.
Then maybe some are just here for chit chat and don't want anything more than that.
You are here for men. I am here for women. We both say what we want and what we are looking for. Stil the site is lacking without more women like you posting their photos and saying things about themselves and what they want. You are more transparent and we need more women here like you to make this site worthwhile.

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No, middle schoolers should not be dating unless you mean something like a group of families with mature adults are going to the bowling alley, and there will be no sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, piercings, tattoos, and so on.

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Please post pictures to show your identitiy.

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That is irrelevant to the truth of the response to the original post. Pictures do not necessarily show one's identity, but they can still be used against someone.

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You lack knowledge.
In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity. Most online dating platforms require profile pictures to ensure user and safety privacy– beyond the obvious benefits of being able to see other users, verified profile pics increase security and user safety.

I only respond to profiles with pictures in my posts.

You also lack knowledge, but you ignored my points and threw some red herrings. Profile pictures are swiped off the net to be used by those in power. If you or your group was severely discrimintated against and persecuted, you might understand a little better. This dating platform is different than other platforms. Forcing people to have their pictures stolen lowers privacy and safety. Oh, now you argue a picture should be verified by some bad authority? That sounds like a terrible idea. You post a lot of links to or of youtube or AI pictures or video. That is suspicious. A lot of websites also forbid links. One might think someone with your supposed level of education would be smarter than this ...

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No, middle schoolers should not be dating unless you mean something like a group of families with mature adults are going to the bowling alley, and there will be no sex, drugs, alcohol, smoking, piercings, tattoos, and so on.

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Please post pictures to show your identitiy.

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That is irrelevant to the truth of the response to the original post. Pictures do not necessarily show one's identity, but they can still be used against someone.

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You lack knowledge.
In the online world, where scams and fake accounts run rampant, profile pictures serve as quick visual cue for authenticity. Most online dating platforms require profile pictures to ensure user and safety privacy– beyond the obvious benefits of being able to see other users, verified profile pics increase security and user safety.

I only respond to profiles with pictures in my posts.

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You also lack knowledge, but you ignored my points and threw some red herrings. Profile pictures are swiped off the net to be used by those in power. If you or your group was severely discrimintated against and persecuted, you might understand a little better. This dating platform is different than other platforms. Forcing people to have their pictures stolen lowers privacy and safety. Oh, now you argue a picture should be verified by some bad authority? That sounds like a terrible idea. You post a lot of links to or of youtube or AI pictures or video. That is suspicious. A lot of websites also forbid links. One might think someone with your supposed level of education would be smarter than this ...

MisterSomeone,

Thank you very much for your kind understanding and yes, I am a real woman with my own elegance and with the God’s grace bestowed on me.

However, I feel that many women here often possess fear of judgment or criticism from peers and society.
Concerns about privacy and the potential for personal information to be misused, or lack of confidence in their writing or creative abilities and previous negative experiences with sharing their work publicly are probably factors that discourage them to actively participate in the forefront.

Besides, I have seen that in online dating sites, a lot of pornsick LVM will start slowly infiltrating sexual innuendos into casual conversation disguised as “flirting”. These may start off perceivably harmless, such as an over-the-top compliment about women’s appearance which “he probably didn’t mean like that”, a slightly intrusive comment about their body, or even steamy “jokes” which have no business being brought into a conversation such as in LetsHangout. Many women are vulnerable to such attacks while I have developed tendencies to resist them disproportionately and severely discouraging them to continue and escalate.

I have always looked at your profile and posts with respect and dignity as they have a divine perspective, a recurring theme throughout the Bible, urging readers to transcend their limited understanding and embrace God's eternal viewpoint.

Thank you again,
Rosi



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Thanks!

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At the moment, I am looking for an fwb relation only. But if I come across with someone good looking with great earning potential, education, ambition, kindness, passion and intelligence, I will proceed for long-term relationship.

You talk of love but I don't think you're looking for love. Most women equate what a man does for them as love and without it love cannot exist or if it's lost later on then relationship is over. Men aren't like that we truly look for love and for the most part what we want from a women is not to make our lives difficult.

I see a lot of cats in your future because you like most modern women have expectations that will likely keep you single for the rest of your life. You likely misjudge your value in the marriage realm based on the attention you currently receive from men but as you stated above he has to have several qualifications and if by chance you meet a guy with those qualifications. Will he want to marry you? Chances are he will be in high demand and you're nearly past your prime. You did what most modern women do and wasted your best years on education and playing the field. You also think that your job and education makes you more desirable to men but for most men it doesn't, especially the ones you seek.

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At the moment, I am looking for an fwb relation only. But if I come across with someone good looking with great earning potential, education, ambition, kindness, passion and intelligence, I will proceed for long-term relationship.

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You talk of love but I don't think you're looking for love. Most women equate what a man does for them as love and without it love cannot exist or if it's lost later on then relationship is over. Men aren't like that we truly look for love and for the most part what we want from a women is not to make our lives difficult.

I see a lot of cats in your future because you like most modern women have expectations that will likely keep you single for the rest of your life. You likely misjudge your value in the marriage realm based on the attention you currently receive from men but as you stated above he has to have several qualifications and if by chance you meet a guy with those qualifications. Will he want to marry you? Chances are he will be in high demand and you're nearly past your prime. You did what most modern women do and wasted your best years on education and playing the field. You also think that your job and education makes you more desirable to men but for most men it doesn't, especially the ones you seek.

Talking to me..?

Most of the things you wrote have no relevance with my life or lifestyle..!





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Talking to me..?

Most of the things you wrote have no relevance with my life or lifestyle..!

That's a cap and you know it. The older you get the more desperate you will become to get married and have a family and since you claim to believe in God I'm leaving you with this little tidbit::

God created Eve for Adam and not the other way around.

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Talking to me..?

Most of the things you wrote have no relevance with my life or lifestyle..!

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That's a cap and you know it. The older you get the more desperate you will become to get married and have a family and since you claim to believe in God I'm leaving you with this little tidbit::

God created Eve for Adam and not the other way around.

This is LetsHandOut’s discussion forum where we discuss questions and comments regarding posts. Profile questions should be addressed to the members via Private Message from your profile page.

I don’t believe in creationism. I believe in evolution.

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I don’t believe in creationism. I believe in evolution.

Then it's worse for you then I first thought.

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I don’t believe in creationism. I believe in evolution.

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'Then it's worse for you then I first thought'.

"...it's worse for you, 'than', (not 'then')..

Much English..?

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'Then it's worse for you then I first thought'.

"...it's worse for you, 'than', (not 'then')..

Much English..?

Is that all you got?

The retard speaks again. He knows nothing but finds fault with everybody and tells you how smart he is. Just like trump if you believe him you deserve what you get.

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The retard speaks again. He knows nothing but finds fault with everybody and tells you how smart he is. Just like trump if you believe him you deserve what you get.

Ha..ha..!

I agree with Looking64 that pictures are not necessarily photos of the person posting. There is no photo verification here. Nor are there requirements for photos here. And this is a way from the original topic. I have done both. I have posted photos and I have not posted photos. All in all, it has not made much a difference for me either way. People are thousands of miles away. Correspondences are short-lived. Once one gives out their regular e-address, people are quickly asked for gift cards and money. But some get an extra notch in their belt by being on here. There is not likely any lasting romance. But yes, maybe if one posts current photos of themselves, they may increase their odds, but the internet is not a great way of meeting people. Being assertive in the to and fro while you're still young is a better way of meeting people.

I only respond to profiles with photos!

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The retard speaks again. He knows nothing but finds fault with everybody and tells you how smart he is. Just like trump if you believe him you deserve what you get.

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Ha..ha..!

It appears we may have a match made in the bowls of the lake of fire.

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The retard speaks again. He knows nothing but finds fault with everybody and tells you how smart he is. Just like trump if you believe him you deserve what you get.

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Ha..ha..!

It appears we may have a match made in the bowls of the lake of fire.

I'd say it's more likely you at your job.

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I'd say it's more likely you at your job.

You bark too loud! You have no knowledge and skill. Go and learn even how to post visuls like images or infographics in a post here!

I have other things to do rather than beating around the bush with you!

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You bark too loud! You have no knowledge and skill. Go and learn even how to post visuls like images or infographics in a post here!

I have other things to do rather than beating around the bush with you!

I use the old fashioned method of writing words to get my message across unlike others who have to use visual aids to deflect rather than answer a simple question or defend their position. But if you want to go on living in delusion I'm not going to hold you back.

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You bark too loud! You have no knowledge and skill. Go and learn even how to post visuls like images or infographics in a post here!

I have other things to do rather than beating around the bush with you!

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I use the old fashioned method of writing words to get my message across unlike others who have to use visual aids to deflect rather than answer a simple question or defend their position. But if you want to go on living in delusion I'm not going to hold you back.

Ha..ha..!
Not because of "the old fashioned method" of writing words to get your message,






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Ha..ha..!
Not because of "the old fashioned method" of writing words to get your message,

What's really dumb are your visual aids. It would appear you need crutches to prop your words, or lack thereof.

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Ha..ha..!
Not because of "the old fashioned method" of writing words to get your message,

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What's really dumb are your visual aids. It would appear you need crutches to prop your words, or lack thereof.

I am not continuing communicating with you any more as I have other things to do. You interfered and sarted bullying me in my post commenting with baseless arguments which have nothing to do with my lifestyle. You had no idea who I was. You lacked contextual connections, and with your outdated information, irrelevant subject matter, personal and subjective bias, and ambiguous words, your arguments were absurd and trash. Instead of acknowledging your problems of personal failures and frustrations in marriage, you shift the blame onto other women in their lives which is outrageously frivolous and harebrained.

I request you to refrain from further interruptions in my posts and thank you.






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Ha..ha..!
Not because of "the old fashioned method" of writing words to get your message,

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What's really dumb are your visual aids. It would appear you need crutches to prop your words, or lack thereof.

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I am not continuing communicating with you any more as I have other things to do. You interfered and sarted bullying me in my post commenting with baseless arguments which have nothing to do with my lifestyle. You had no idea who I was. You lacked contextual connections, and with your outdated information, irrelevant subject matter, personal and subjective bias, and ambiguous words, your arguments were absurd and trash. Instead of acknowledging your problems of personal failures and frustrations in marriage, you shift the blame onto other women in their lives which is outrageously frivolous and harebrained

I request you to refrain from further interruptions in my posts and thank you.

Wow when a woman accuses a man of bullying when no such thing occurred, then she's lost the moral high ground (if she ever had any). The rest of what you said is just an attempt to save face and try to occupy that elusive high ground. I'm surprised you stuck it out as long as you did as most women can't stand it so much when a man disagrees with them their reaction is just to clam up. At least you gave it somewhat of a try so I give you some kudos for that. I would rather have had more well reasoned and thoughtful replies from you but that was your choice.

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Since you're playing the immature game how about I join you with this one:
"I'm rubber your glue and everything you say bounces off me and sticks to you". What you think of that one? It's a good one, yes, no, maybe?

How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

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How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

Maybe a good idea for him to switch teams.

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How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

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Maybe a good idea for him to switch teams.

Kind of a nonsensical post, but then again after the PMs you sent me I wouldn't have expected much in the way of intellectually packed post from you.

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How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

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Maybe a good idea for him to switch teams.

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Kind of a nonsensical post, but then again after the PMs you sent me I wouldn't have expected much in the way of intellectually packed post from you.

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How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

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Maybe a good idea for him to switch teams.

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Kind of a nonsensical post, but then again after the PMs you sent me I wouldn't have expected much in the way of intellectually packed post from you.

You must be a gluten for punishment. What's the ruler use use to measure bullying and do you apply that measurement evenly amongst all poster or only the one's who disagree with you?

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How about this one offthewallretard. I’m rubber your glue you stick to trumps a** like the flu. Stop bashing women and trying to cause trouble. Go visit some of my posts about c*m tasting and hard dicks. You’ll be harmless and welcomed over there. Chime in and answer a question. Stop the rambling shit that has no meaning and no basis.

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Maybe a good idea for him to switch teams.

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Kind of a nonsensical post, but then again after the PMs you sent me I wouldn't have expected much in the way of an intellectually packed post from you.

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You must be a gluten for punishment. What's the ruler use use to measure bullying and do you apply that measurement evenly amongst all poster or only the one's who disagree with you?

Since you're accusing a poster or posters. Could you make it more clear to others by pointing out the posts and the poster or posters, along with what was said that you believe is bullying?

Others..?

What others you are talking about..? Talk about you only. Everyone in LetsHangOut knows that you are a misogynist and your life is a disaster. When you quit the room, you make everyone happy!

My life is a disaster too

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Others..?

What others you are talking about..? Talk about you only. Everyone in LetsHangOut knows that you are a misogynist and your life is a disaster. When you quit the room, you make everyone happy!

So it's not really about bullying but about a vendetta against me because you don't like hear the truth? Not an unusual reaction from someone who has been lied to for so many years. You've been convinced that you're right when in reality you're wrong. You're living a lie and it's going to bite you in the butt.

I'm serious when I say that there are a lot of cats in your future and no husband or children. You've convinced yourself you deserve a caviar life with a top tier guy while only offering an out of shape aging body and a feminist mindset which at best makes you a 3 maybe 4 out of 10. Yes that's right you don't come anywhere near the 10 you think you are. One of the biggest lies women are told is just because they want to believe they're a 10 that makes them a 10. I'm sorry to inform you but that's not real life and apparently men are the only ones who know this because we are the one's who have to live in the real world.

We know that most of us fall in the average category, but our average puts us far above the average woman because of what we bring to the table. Here's another tidbit: If a man ever agrees with a woman, it's because he want's something from her like a little nookie or in the case of a boyfriend or husband it's to appease her and get her off his back. Single men want sex and attached men want peace so men will lie to women to get what they want. So the real question is why do men lie to women? It's not because men want to lie, but because women don't want to hear the truth. And were supposed to be the dumb one's. The dumb are the those who are sucked in by every lie that tickles their emotions and negatively influences their decisions.

Unfortunately women are men's weakness and as a whole we have been letting women get away with far to much so we are partly responsible for the monsters women have become. But things have gone well beyond the tolerable. Women are regularly destroying families and hurting innocent children and husbands. All because they are convinced by lies their perceived happiness comes above all else. Women sacrifice family's for happiness and men sacrifice happiness for family's. But women are never happy even after the destruction of their family. The sadder part is that lack of happiness is usually short lived but they aren't willing to stick it out to find out because of you know, that old selfish thing women suffer from. However men do get the importance of family.

Many women have no problem lying about what a man said or did and destroying his life simply because she got butt hurt. You're a good example of that by claiming I'm bullying just because I'm posting my opinion on the research I spent the last 10 years reading/viewing. I already had a good handle on male female dynamics but the intense research helped bring it home. While you along with most women have spent your lives absorbing the feminist lies. It's easy to do when when you are born selfish. It's in women's nature to be that way. it's a not a bad thing when used as God intended it. But what we are experiencing now is an extremely destructive example hypergamy.

God never intended for women to have the power they have been given simply because they weren't built to handle it. Satan did intend for things to go down as they have and it all started when Eve bit the apple in the Garden of Eden. Men were the one's made to handle the rigors that power brings which also includes protecting women from themselves but Adam failed to do that and the future was set. Nevertheless the real power to stop what has happened was in the power of both men and women. But like what happened in the Garden of Eden men want to make women happy and that has worked against us.

Sadly men in the western world have done such a good job of making things easy for everyone we've ended up with a bunch of weak men who have allowed women to take control and we are reaping the hell from that. So as mentioned above it's not just women who have caused this, but since women are the one's now in the position of power then the burden falls on them to make it better but they are failing miserably at it because Satan has them convinced they deserve the power given them and they aren't willing to give it up. One last thing. If men decided to take back power there's nothing women could do to stop it. Women only remain in power as long as men allow them to.

"Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times."

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Post like that are really immature. Is that really what you want people to know you by?

Let me tell you honestly what you should do...

In order to gain respect, you should STOP

• Showing preferential treatment to men or other genders/orientations over women. Minimizing the value of women.
• Catcalling and objectifying women or those who identify as women.
• Displaying a general lack of respect for a woman’s time and effort in her respective experience.
• Interrupting, speaking over, or ignoring a woman purposefully.
• Rejecting ideas from women. Believing in gender biases.
• Displaying a refusal to promote female colleagues based on their gender or sexual orientation.
• Punishing women for calling attention to discrimination as it arises.

By recognizing these examples, you can begin to address the underlying hatred that fuels internalized misogyny and work towards a healthier perception of gender equality.

Best..

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Let me tell you honestly what you should do...

In order to gain respect, you should STOP

• Showing preferential treatment to men or other genders/orientations over women. Minimizing the value of women.
• Catcalling and objectifying women or those who identify as women.
• Displaying a general lack of respect for a woman’s time and effort in her respective experience.
• Interrupting, speaking over, or ignoring a woman purposefully.
• Rejecting ideas from women. Believing in gender biases.
• Displaying a refusal to promote female colleagues based on their gender or sexual orientation.
• Punishing women for calling attention to discrimination as it arises.

By recognizing these examples, you can begin to address the underlying hatred that fuels internalized misogyny and work towards a healthier perception of gender equality.

Best..

I see nothing on that list that applies to anything I've wrote. Telling the truth is nothing more that exactly that, the truth. If you are butt hurt by reading the truth then that's a problem that lies within you not me. I wish I had a good suggestion for you to combat what ails you but I don't. Perhaps a good old fashioned deprogramming would do it but that would be dependent on how good the deprogramming was.

This is why viewers here evaluate you as a mean, contemptuous, disrespectful moron! Every civilized man in today’s world appreciates what goodness others write and are thankful to them for enlightening them. Shame on you, arrogant!

In my three years of college teaching, I have never seen such a profane, contemptuous, miserly individual as you! You have inflicted 63 years of ignorance in your head, receiving blatant blows from all women across your life. Mirrors cannot speak. Fortunately for you, it reveals how desperate you look!

You are a jobless person unmotivated to seek employment due to wasting your time in the internet which offers you entertainment bullying and trolling others. You rely on family or savings resources only reducing the urgency to find work while I and others here have to work hard to make both ends meet.

Wind up your profile and go home, man!


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This is why viewers here evaluate you as a mean, contemptuous, disrespectful moronl! Every civilized man in today’s word appreciates what goodness others write and are thankful to them for enlightening them. Shame on you, arrogant!

In my three years of college teaching, I have never seen such a profane, contemptuous, miserly individual as you! You have inflicted 63 years of ignorance in your head, receiving blatant blows from all women across your life. Mirrors cannot speak. Fortunately for you, it reveals how desperate you look!

You are a jobless person here unmotivated to seek employment due to wasting time in the internet which offers you entertainment bullying and trolling others. You rely on family or savings resources only reducing the urgency to find work while I and others here have to work hard to make both ends meet.

Wind up your profile and go home, man!

Your years as a college teacher isn't a badge of honor as colleges for many years now have been nothing but propaganda mills and as a teacher you have been actively propagandizing other weak minds so your are part of the multiple lies that young people have been subjected to. What you have done and likely continuing to do is pure evil. It doesn't surprise me that people like needmorebrains jumps to your defense because he's also evil and birds of a feather flock together.

My 63 years years is a badge of honor because I was able to escape much of the propaganda that's currently being pushed on your weak mind. I still wouldn't have fallen for the propaganda because I've always had to much common sense which is something you obvious lack. Most women lack common sense which is why they so readily fall for feminism and liberalism. That type of propaganda is soaked up by those without common sense because it tells people what they want to hear and not what they need to hear. You don't hear what I'm saying because it's not what you want to hear and has nothing to do with the accuracy or truthfulness of what I'm saying.

As an example women are told that men still get paid more than women. They want to believe it so they do. But the truth is that men and women are paid the same when they work the same jobs and have comparable experience. In those cases where things mostly differ is women take more time off and work less overtime. Men also seek more dangerous jobs that pay more but none of that was taken into consideration. Everything was just lumped together and showed that men made more money without breaking down the reasons but was sited as accurate and women sucked it up as gospel without looking into the truth behind the so called study.

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You are a jobless person here unmotivated to seek employment due to wasting time in the internet which offers you entertainment bullying and trolling others. You rely on family or savings resources only reducing the urgency to find work while I and others here have to work hard to make both ends meet.

I don't know where you come up with this or what relevance it has. I don't work because I have multiple myeloma which is a cancer of the bone marrow. Most of it is in my spine, ribs and right shoulder and due to the pain in those locations I couldn't work if I wanted to. So I'm living off my social security that I started drawing at 62. That gets supplemented with money that should have been coming from a retirement account but that money was stolen by my ex before it was turned over to me after the divorce. I had to take her to court Pro se and won a settlement for $225,000 but I had to take court again Pro se to get a wage garnishment since she was unwilling to refi the house and pay me what she stole. I will soon be going back and upping the amount of garnishment in an effort to force her to refi because she will not be able to afford to continue to make the payments so either she will refi or loose the house either way she will still be stuck paying one way or the other.

She's a perfect example of a woman with 0 common sense. One of the things that made our marriage work was as long as I was around her lack of common sense was irrelevant because I made sure it was never an issue which is how it should be. Men were created to run the important things in the marriage and household. So without us things are never going to run as smooth as they should. And in her case since the divorce she's been sued by a credit card company and some other outfit for lack of payment and she makes plenty of money but can't mange it properly. Before I left we had a credit rating that was as high as you can achieve. But now we both have no credit but for different reasons. She destroyed hers by not paying what she owed and mine fell by the wayside because I never charge anything. I paid cash for my house and if I need another vehicle I will buy with cash. So I no longer need credit.

One last thing. I wasn't going to bring this up but sense you decided to try and attack my working and financial situation. It hasn't escaped my notice that you claim to have a job as a teacher but spend an inordinate amount of time on these forums. So I have to ask Do they specifically pay you to post here or are you illegally spending company time playing on the internet?

Sorry to hear about your ailment and wish you quicker reliefs. Perhaps it is how the God punishes the evil and the wicked among us. Or, you may be trying to gain sympathy from viewers as well!



“Isaiah 13:11
Verse Concepts
Thus I will punish the world for its evil
And the wicked for their iniquity;”

I am an adjunct faculty in City Colleges of Chicago having only four hours of online teaching in a week. Besides, this is summer vacation time. City Colleges don't bother as long as employees involve in personal matters which do not conflict with the ethics of the institution.

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Sorry to hear about your ailment and wish you quicker reliefs. Perhaps it is how the God punishes the evil and the wicked among us. Or, you may be trying to gain sympathy from viewers as well!



“Isaiah 13:11
Verse Concepts
Thus I will punish the world for its evil
And the wicked for their iniquity;”

I am an adjunct faculty in City Colleges of Chicago having only four hours of online teaching in a week. Besides, this is summer vacation time. City Colleges don't bother as long as employees involve in personal matters which do not conflict with the ethics of the institution.

I appreciate your explanation of your work situation because it does put things into perspective. Although I do believe that people can suffer for their sins it's not likely I sin any worse than most other Christians. There's really no rhyme or reason as to who suffers including Christians and which doesn't. I think when you're born your health for the most part is predestined. You can make your health worse and maybe shorten your lifespan by doing drugs, smoking, drinking, committing suicide or invoking the Darwin awards by doing something really stupid. But things like cancer where there's no determinable outside cause like smoking or exposure to chemicals. In my case there were none so I was going to have it no matter what.

I also don't believe God heals anymore. If he did then we would be seeing it as a regular occurrence and there would be no doubt about the healing. As it it is the only ones that are reported have no real proof attached to them and relies on what the person reports and not a miraculous occurrence witnessed by others. There are some faked ones out there but they fall apart when subjected to close scrutiny. I believe all miracles stopped when the last of Jesus Disciples died and with them the amount of faith required to perform miracles also died.

And on we go with the poor me. Look how smart I am and how dumb everyone else is. I’m loving on SSI and my ex stole all my savings but yet I paid cash for my house and car. Sorry but that story doesn’t add up….. wonder how much of your other stories are made up???? lol good dreams there.

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Yes. That is prime fucking season! They used to get married and have kids at 12 and 13! That is nature at work. Not fucking boys no but boys fucking girls yes by all means.

~ someone check his hard drive … i hope u are not around kids