Dating older women (28)

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  • Hotgrandma47 Dating Profile
    Mar 27, 2019 12:55 PM UTC
    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age
  • MexicaliJoe Dating Profile
    MexicaliJoe 1 Post Alameda, California, USA
    Jun 12, 2019 6:35 AM UTC
    I think its becuz its a fantasy for most becuz for me I was always around older women and liked how they made me feel especially if they were attracted to me when I was younger and had a few experiences with older women that liked a younger guy that knew how to please them orally fpr hours!
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    Maggiekay 1 Post Zanesville, Ohio, USA
    Apr 13, 2020 1:48 PM UTC

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    I think its becuz its a fantasy for most becuz for me I was always around older women and liked how they made me feel especially if they were attracted to me when I was younger and had a few experiences with older women that liked a younger guy that knew how to please them orally fpr hours![/ I am a beautiful woman I am 64 but everybody thinks I'm 50 I'm 4-11 I'm a 30 1/2 Double D cup I'm very tiny you nowhere else and most of all the younger men are more attracted to me and the older ones even though the other ones try but the younger ones are always chosen

  • joadam1512 Dating Profile
    joadam1512 1 Post Luton, England, United Kingdom
    Apr 18, 2020 1:21 PM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age



    it same as older man like to date younger girls or many younger girl too love older mature man..
  • Cumgetit69 Dating Profile
    Apr 6, 2022 11:30 PM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age


    I love women in their 80s and 70s I think that's when they get the most beautiful in life I am 43 and I would love to talk and date and have sex with a 70 80 year old woman hit me up let's talk I would love to see where it goes
  • Mrmeat Dating Profile
    Mrmeat 1 Post Westerly, Rhode Island, USA
    Jul 5, 2022 6:04 PM UTC
    I feel it's because men don't see what qualities their looking for in the age group their in so they look elsewhere, I feel their pain ?
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    FunOne4Us 1 Post Stockton, California, USA
    Aug 28, 2022 12:49 AM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age



    hi Hotgrandma47, I am Bill, 76, single man, Stockton, Ca want on love. I have no children. seek serious on person to date.
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    victornurroz 3 Posts Mountain house, California, USA
    Sep 11, 2022 9:53 PM UTC
    .. I'm Victor and why I choose older women is because of the maturity in a woman young girls are dramatic that's why I choose and older women

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    guitarjase74aatgm 2 Posts Pembroke, Ontario, Canada
    Nov 13, 2022 10:49 AM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age

    i know some sexy 71 year old olds,stll suck lick a champ
  • Txsailor23 Dating Profile
    Jul 28, 2023 4:09 PM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age



    Older woman, best I've herd is: They don't yell, they don't tell, they don't smell and they're grateful as hell.
  • Craigthing Dating Profile
    Oct 5, 2023 3:04 AM UTC
    You know the feeling: your face suddenly feels hot, a bracing wave of unalloyed desire passes through your body, your loins issue orders, nothing but satisfaction any longer seems to matter. "Gotcha" --you're abjectly at her mercy.

    Do I overstate such a circumstance?

    No?

    I'll try harder:

    I think that men, both young and old, sense the experience, the secure sexual competence and confidence of older women --and by God: we want to go for a ride. The sexual energy and motivation could run toasters.

    Craig (Fondly remembering an old gal who built WW2 bombers.)
  • Rhonda123 Dating Profile
    Rhonda123 34 Posts New York City, New York, USA
    Oct 5, 2023 3:16 PM UTC
    Hi Hotgrabsma- I'm 56 and I frequently get asked out my men half my age. I love it and I am much flattered of course.
    I think its because I dress like a woman and not like they usually dress.
  • Jason32405 Dating Profile
    Jason32405 2 Posts Panama City, Florida, USA
    Oct 17, 2023 11:20 PM UTC
    I'm 43, my last relationship lasted for 11.5 years. She was 15 years older then I was. I have only dated/been with 1 woman that was my age or younger and she was only 9 months younger then me. Our dating experience lasted a whole 3 months. The biggest reason I prefer older women is because women my age are either starting a midlife crisis, are in the middle of a midlife crisis, or just ending some sort of midlife crisis. I don't do drama and personally I don't want any part of any kind of crises. For the most part older women date younger guys because that's what they want. They know what they want and they are more willing to enjoy it, which makes the whole experience whole lot more enjoyable for both parties!
  • Retroactive Dating Profile
    Dec 7, 2023 4:42 PM UTC
    Its the mom/son taboo fantacy.
  • Titolisbrujos Dating Profile
    Feb 11, 2024 11:40 PM UTC
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    RonniePonyStronghotmailcom 6 Posts Wilmington, Delaware, USA
    May 23, 2024 9:09 PM UTC
    I have met and had sex with many older women. At 15, I seduced a bored housewife. I found from her, I had a large p*nis and lasted far far longer than her husband. We had an 8 month torrid daily affair. Her friends would have me when Debbie was on her period. At 18 and on my own, I cleaned apartments on weekends. One took me to bed and then I had many of her friends. All were 30's and older.
    I had a Pizza delivery job. One customer, a woman in her 70's, like me very much. I would go there after work with the pizza she enjoyed. As time went on, we became close friends then she wanted to kiss me always.
    I told my wife and they became friendly. We had her many times for dinner and drinks. She was sexually aggressive and loved and demanded that I f*ck her throat, hard and long. I did and she also enjoyed the sex. I had to be gentle as I did not want to 'break' her.
    Older women are more relaxed
  • Haysbaby1994 Dating Profile
    Haysbaby1994 11 Posts Fort Smith, Arkansas, USA
    Jan 13, 2025 8:16 PM UTC
    Well I can speak for my self! But why I like and attracted to older women is because they know what they want they don't lie and they have there shit together
  • whitedozer57 Dating Profile
    whitedozer57 6 Posts Jennings, Oklahoma, USA
    Jan 24, 2025 5:07 AM UTC
    When I was in my 30's...I was hit on by older married women alot! I saw a pattern and thought that a jealous husband might do me in...but damn the sex was good!! Seems like between 47-63....they are on fire! Never been squirted on that much in my life! Now I'm old and the younger women hit on me. Thankbyou viagra! Whew! Let's go!!
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    RUAuthentic25 1 Post Enola, Pennsylvania, USA
    Jan 24, 2025 6:43 PM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age



    It's difficult meeting women these days, period. They don't seem to want to try give guys a chance.
  • offgridenthusiast Dating Profile
    offgridenthusiast 686 Posts Society Hill, South Carolina, USA
    Apr 14, 2025 5:54 PM UTC
    For most younger guys the attraction to older women is a fetish. The natural order is for older men to be attracted to younger more pure and fertile women and women to be attracted to older more settled men. Unfortunately that's not what you get in the modern world. Gone are to days of younger means less used. Younger women are starting earlier and jumping into as many beds as they can find and as they get older their neurosis from all the men and beds they ran through only makes them less able to have good relationships in their later years.
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    Needmore 608 Posts Waseca, Minnesota, USA
    Aug 5, 2025 12:48 PM UTC
    I wouldn’t believe any of what offretardgrid says. He is delusional and has been acting like an expert on everything and offering nothing. He thinks his experience and relationships are what everyone else has. Poor bastard
  • Stephlovesme498 Dating Profile
    Aug 7, 2025 8:09 PM UTC

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    For most younger guys the attraction to older women is a fetish. The natural order is for older men to be attracted to younger more pure and fertile women and women to be attracted to older more settled men. Unfortunately that's not what you get in the modern world. Gone are to days of younger means less used. Younger women are starting earlier and jumping into as many beds as they can find and as they get older their neurosis from all the men and beds they ran through only makes them less able to have good relationships in their later years.

    You are full of Shit.
  • MisterSomeone Dating Profile
    MisterSomeone 643 Posts Grand Forks, North Dakota, USA
    Aug 8, 2025 12:04 AM UTC
    "Live and let live."

    I think offgrid is right that "The natural order is for older men to be attracted to younger more pure and fertile women and women to be attracted to older more settled men."

    I'm an old guy that wants younger more pure and fertile women.
    I think women are attracted to older men at least for money. A number will marry an older guy for his money.
    Younger women are attracted to older more settled men at least for financial outcome and money if nothing else.
    Now however women are less pure. They want multiple men. They have many men for one reason and another man for another reason. Some they want for fun. Some they want for sex. Others they want for money. Some they want to finance them and support them. They may have no sexual interest in these at all. It is just a means of money. Or a giggle.
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    offgridenthusiast 686 Posts Society Hill, South Carolina, USA
    Aug 8, 2025 1:34 AM UTC

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    For most younger guys the attraction to older women is a fetish. The natural order is for older men to be attracted to younger more pure and fertile women and women to be attracted to older more settled men. Unfortunately that's not what you get in the modern world. Gone are to days of younger means less used. Younger women are starting earlier and jumping into as many beds as they can find and as they get older their neurosis from all the men and beds they ran through only makes them less able to have good relationships in their later years.

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    You are full of Shit.



    Your reaction is a very common one among older women. They can't stand the fact that the men they want prefer younger women. I don't doubt that it hurts to be told that but I'm sure you knew it already. The problem is most older lonely women put themselves is the situation where they have to try and compete with those younger then them. Some are there because they played the field to long and got ran through by many men during their most desirable years rather than spending that time looking for a good guy to spend the rest of their lives with.

    Others got married and then destroyed their marriage because they convinced themselves they weren't happy with that great guy they married. They then divorced him thinking they could do better. But found out after that all those men they thought were going to be beating down their door for a relationship. Didn't take them seriously and just wanted them for sex.

    The hard truth is a woman's peak value has an expiration date. Their 20s are the peak, 30 to 35 fading and after that the downward slope is steep. Women have convinced themselves that as they age and gain experience they become more desirable. But that only applies to men and because of feminism women are taught to apply that masculine trait to themselves but it doesn't work because it's men who choose what attracts them and no amount of anger from women will change that.

    I wish I could say I have sympathy for older women, or modern women in general. But I don't because quite frankly they have been given great freedoms by men and have used those freedoms in an extremely poor manner that is destroying dating, marriages, family's and worst of all their own children's futures. So no sympathy from me and I'm sure that would also include many, many men who have had to deal with the destruction of their family or career at the hands of a woman.Flipa smilie emoji/emoticon smiley


  • MisterSomeone Dating Profile
    MisterSomeone 643 Posts Grand Forks, North Dakota, USA
    Aug 8, 2025 3:35 AM UTC
    I have no doubt that older women can bed younger men. "Beggars can't be choosers." And to, younger men may welcome the financial benefit of dating older women that provide them things on a platter.

    I myself, I am not interested in old women. I have interest in women of childbearing age that want children and don't mind an old guy to go about it. Not many women still look pretty in their 40's and their desirability fades quickly.

    There are a few exceptions. Sarah was a knock out. She was still a fox in her old age attracting rulers. Abraham was concerned for his life, she was so beautiful. Heidi Klum, the Super Model is such a fox. Many young men would want her as a wife and her money. They wouldn't care how many times she was divorced.
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    dogfather60 4 Posts Cohoes, New York, USA
    Aug 20, 2025 9:25 PM UTC

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    For most younger guys the attraction to older women is a fetish. The natural order is for older men to be attracted to younger more pure and fertile women and women to be attracted to older more settled men. Unfortunately that's not what you get in the modern world. Gone are to days of younger means less used. Younger women are starting earlier and jumping into as many beds as they can find and as they get older their neurosis from all the men and beds they ran through only makes them less able to have good relationships in their later years.

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    You are full of Shit.



    Don't you just love the generalizations about older women, and women in general?
    I've known plenty of older women whom I've found to be attractive. There's something to be said for dating within your age group. I can relate better to women of my generation, because we've had similar life experiences. I wouldn't rule out dating a much younger woman, but she would have to be mature well beyond her years for that to happen.

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    DesertGhost 8 Posts HENDERSON, Nevada, USA
    Oct 15, 2025 11:20 PM UTC
    I grew up with more adults around me than people my age. I attribute that to my fascination with older women.
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    TheBeeGuy 35 Posts Killeen, Texas, USA
    Oct 17, 2025 5:13 AM UTC

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    Why do much younger guys want to date me some are 30 years old I am 71 and get requests. For FWB it's a nice feeling. But what is wrong with girls near their age



    ROFL why is every comment based on sex? Its like a bunch of men running around like toddlers that discovered their PP.
    Sidenote: Its a mommy fetish, ignoring that older generally means more financially stable, thats what many are after..🙄
    My answer would be that theyre more direct, know what they want..lifes short!

    "fly fast, sting hard! You only get one shot in life."

    The Bee Guy
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