How do guys feel about women making the first move? (11)

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  • QuizzicalSprout Dating Profile
    QuizzicalSprout OP 5 Posts Portland, Oregon, USA
    May 16, 2023 5:11 AM UTC
    How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.
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    ColonelAngus 17 Posts Lawndale, California, USA
    May 16, 2023 5:40 AM UTC

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    How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.



    We love it.. go for it..
  • safegambler1 Dating Profile
    safegambler1 3 Posts Pittsburg, Kansas, USA
    May 18, 2023 10:38 AM UTC
    I feel quite flattered if the lady makes the first move. Sometimes men overlook a real gem for whatever reason. So, come on ladies, don't be shy.
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    ABQJack 1 Post Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
    May 18, 2023 8:04 PM UTC
    Go for it as everyone wins and no losers.
  • Salem42solo Dating Profile
    Salem42solo 5 Posts Salem, Oregon, USA
    May 27, 2023 5:52 PM UTC

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    How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.


    It can remove any questions, confusion about the situation. I would recommend trying not to blindside the guy though. Walking along having a friendly conversation, never having dated or talked about it, if you just randomly kiss the guy, it might be a bit awkward for a few.
  • QuizzicalSprout Dating Profile
    QuizzicalSprout OP 5 Posts Portland, Oregon, USA
    May 28, 2023 7:48 PM UTC

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    if you just randomly kiss the guy, it might be a bit awkward for a few.



    Yeah, consent is kind of important...
    I meant just asking someone out.


    Edited: May 28, 2023 7:49 PM UTC
  • Windbreaker Dating Profile
    Windbreaker 1 Post Wyandotte, Michigan, USA
    May 28, 2023 8:31 PM UTC

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    How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.



    PLEASE! Do it. Then we don't have to wonder if you are interested.
  • Salem42solo Dating Profile
    Salem42solo 5 Posts Salem, Oregon, USA
    May 29, 2023 12:27 AM UTC

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    if you just randomly kiss the guy, it might be a bit awkward for a few.



    Yeah, consent is kind of important...
    I meant just asking someone out.



    Yes. But if you have consent, is it really the first move? (Kinda teasing you here.) Seriously, for me, if I'm interested in dating a woman it's stressful to a build up the nerve to ask, think of an outing that will appeal to her... If she beat me to the punch and took all that off my plate.... Yeah, that would be awesome.

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    QuizzicalSprout OP 5 Posts Portland, Oregon, USA
    May 30, 2023 7:04 AM UTC

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    Yes. But if you have consent, is it really the first move? (Kinda teasing you here.) Seriously, for me, if I'm interested in dating a woman it's stressful to a build up the nerve to ask, think of an outing that will appeal to her... If she beat me to the punch and took all that off my plate.... Yeah, that would be awesome.



    Can't tell you how many crushes I had when I was younger and I never told them anything at all because we had a great friendship and I didn't want to ruin that or some other silly reason my mind made up, lol. I think it's all likely based on fear of rejection. I just need to stop being a coward. I like to think rejection is divine protection anyhow.
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    mrfunguy4u 2 Posts Kathleen, Georgia, USA
    May 31, 2023 9:04 AM UTC

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    How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.



    We love it.. go for it..



  • SamSteele Dating Profile
    SamSteele 7 Posts West Nipissing, Ontario, Canada
    Jun 2, 2023 8:53 PM UTC
    It depends on how shy the guy is.
    it's easier to go along with a new prospect. that is giving you all the right signals, than to risk rejection in front of anyone watching you walk over to engage her.
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