How do guys feel about women making the first move? (80)

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

My first post here, hope it's not too awkward. I am over 50 so I certainly have lived most of my life by the old school rules you mention, but, at this age, I don't want to get all hung up on technicalities. It is refreshing to meet a lady that is not just playing games, knows what she wants and is not afraid to start a conversation. Nothing wrong with that. It's even flattering for a woman to want to talk. It is time to re-think the status quo.

It's all good when that happens. You definitely know they're into you. That's how the ladies in Oklahoma roll. I went out from Northern Cali.to play college baseball in Oklahoma. They knew I was out of place. Lol So those ladies would walk up and say how bout dancing , getting a buzz and gettin lucky. Hell yeh then slap her on the a** have fun. So I'm ok with it.

Ok with me

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

As with everything. Matter of perspective. Completely depends on the person. There are those who love to run their mouths and never even give the woman the opportunity to speak. Then there are those of us who are not initiators. We speak when spoken to or if there is a point to be made. Otherwise, we are quiet and retain to ourselves.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

i actually think women should make the first move more often. having a woman making the first move lets me know she is into me.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

Honestly I wish it would happen more often. So in my opinion I don't see anything wrong with it

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

I love it--especially if it's done in a demure way...

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

If women make the first move on me it really turns me on. I love it.

Well as stated by others, it has certain nice values.

But if your not careful, and have no interest in the lady, who speaks up, it can go bad very quickly...

Women are not used to the constant rejection, and therefore are not familiar with it, and tend to pull out a straight razor and cut you, literally and or figure it figuratively....

It's like a gun, it is, but what matters, is what the person with the gun is doing and thinking, at that moment.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

When it comes to beautiful women sometimes us guys feel that where not worthy of them but on chat sites guys don't give a damn because there are others just a click away. Most guys would say bullshit to this but it's true

I have no objection.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

I find it very sexy! Shows a woman has confidence and not afraid to take the initiative. Ladies, do it more often!! Lol.

I think it shows the woman has confidence and she is not hindered by outdated social norms.

I find it flattering and very exciting.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

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We love it.. go for it..

First of all nobody uses the word date anymore. In the last 15 years if I asked a woman on a date, she's laughing my face. I simply say I'm going to lunch you want to come? If you need something more grandiose than that she's probably not for me. Why is he even up for discussion that a woman can't ask a man to lunch, i e a date, is reminiscent of Junior high School.

I love when a girl comes up to me and drops to her knees and pulls out my c*ck and sucks it. Especially when it’s my neighbors wife or my brothers girlfriend. I stand there until she gets me to c*m and swallows it then licks her lips gets up and goes home.

Let's face it, both genders make shitty mind-readers. And everyone if flattered to be wanted. So why can't we all quit playing games and just speak our truth?

DO IT! Sometimes us older gents are flattered that someone would be attracted enough to make the first move!

Drop to your knees and take my c*ck in your mouth. I will follow you anywhere! Swallow and your mine for life.

I love it. Drives me crazy when a woman won't even give hints if they're interested.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

I always say, "If a woman is really interested, she'll come to you. Don't go to her." After chasing down women for years now, I'm tired of trying, so now if any women are interested, they can chase me down instead of me running around ragged getting nothing and nowhere.

Nowadays men need to be aware that making the first move is potentially a problem with many women making false accusations against men. It could also be a problem when a woman makes the first move especially if the man rejects her "first move" . Unlike men, women never really have to deal with rejection the way men have always had to and so they are more likely to get butt hurt and angry and again make a "false accusation".
None of this would be an issue if it wasn't for the believe all women movement which of course is just another stupid thing brought to all of us through feminism.

I love it when the lady gets really hot and starts talking to me like I'm a marshmallow put here so I can melt in that mouth. I like to be treated like the b*tch

I welcome women making the first move. In the bible, it can go both ways. Ruth made the first move, Ruth 3:8-10.
Potipher's wife made the moves on Joseph. Joseph avoided the woman and rejected her advancements. (Genesis 39:9)

Proverbs 7:19-23

19 My husband is not at home;
he has gone on a long journey.
20 He took his purse filled with money
and will not be home till full moon.”

21 With persuasive words she led him astray;
she seduced him with her smooth talk.
22 All at once he followed her
like an ox going to the slaughter,
like a deer[a] stepping into a noose
23 till an arrow pierces his liver,
like a bird darting into a snare,
little knowing it will cost him his life.

In his song, "The Boxer", Paul Simon sang of "Just a COME ON from the blank on 7th avenue."
Now days, women need to be assertive because guys are frequently not.
I want Isaiah 4:1 kind of women. They were assertive.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

This is a fair and safe question, I think. Sometimes it can be seen as unprofessional, uncouth, or desperate depending on how it is done. Putting one's hands on someone could be a big no-no. I have also seen women move towards me very fast, and they probably were interested. Would that count as a first move though? A man needs to be real careful about making the first move in person because of harassment charges and reputation loss in this feminist era. Online, things are different, if she sends a message and meets the criteria I posted, then it might be okay to proceed, but it is almost always worth sending a few more messages. Does she have children? Have a man or ex? Smoke, drink, do drugs, or have tattoos or piercings? Is she a virgin? Is she decent-looking, cute, or hot? Is she a golddigger? Women don't seem to live up to the standards they set for others.

Nothing better than when a girl stranger walks up to me takes my hand and leads me to a secluded area grabs my crotch and rubs till I’m hard then unzips me drops to her knees and shows me she is in charge. I’ve had that happen lots of times and there really is nothing better out there!

I'm immagining women from the women liberation movement applauding it. This was in the 70's. So,long overdue ?

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That is nice to hear. Do you like older women?

Depends-- mostly on the woman. Have been with older, younger, same age-- made little difference-- yes, there are some limitations, but can be worked around. Don't let age define you.

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How do guys feel about women making the first move? Am I just super old school with the idea that it's still the expectation for the man to make the first move or is that still the status quo? How are women perceived for making the first move? Is it different for everyone? Just curious.

Idk, why don't you try. 😉

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if you just randomly kiss the guy, it might be a bit awkward for a few.

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Yeah, consent is kind of important...
I meant just asking someone out.

paying attention... reading signals
I sometimes say "id really like to kiss you"
if im not sure